Align yourself with the necessary tools for growth
If you’re into leadership, entrepreneurship, or similar, you will understand the importance of self-development (particularly self development books).
With a snowstorm keeping us homebound I was able to continue reading my latest, THE AUDACITY TO BE QUEEN BY GINA DEVEE. I just finished Chapter 8 and it definitely hit some triggers and I thought I’d share.
One thing I have gotten really good at is being stuck in a martyred possessed woman (which she talks about in the book). This has been the case for probably decades, but definitely more prominent in recent years. I was actually just having those thoughts YESTERDAY. I was thinking about all the things I have to do and that if I don’t do it, no one will. This revolves around SO MUCH, my girls, my dad, the house, the car, my dad’s business, etc…
It makes me stuck in a “ONE DAY MENTALITY”. Well, one day I’ll be able to do this and one day I’ll be able to take that trip.
It also makes me have a “HOPE ADDICTION”. I live in a world of hope and not actual being and doing.
The book talks about seeking out mentors and challenges to align ourselves with the tools of success and the universe will take notice and provide these opportunities of growth for you.
When I was beginning the chapter I was beginning to get discouraged because I didn’t know how I could get myself out of that hope addiction right now. Then, at the end when she was talking about creating these opportunities for yourself I had to sit back and think about what exactly am I doing in my life for growth.
I am currently in a challenge with mentors, I have new tools for the ultimate success in two areas of my entrepreneurial life. I AM setting myself up with the tools to have growth.
That sparked excitement for the things to come. I’ve got some BIG goals, for myself, for my family, for my business. I know it’s a step by step process and I wish I could just find the fast forward button on life…but I have been able to see the growth within myself through all the challenges I’ve faced. I know I am a strong woman, raising 3 girls to believe in themselves. I need to remember to have that same belief in myself.
Personal growth is not just a buzzword; it’s a crucial journey for anyone aspiring to become a leader or entrepreneur. Self-development books like 'The Audacity to be Queen' by Gina DeVee can guide you in this journey, especially when facing challenges. Understanding concepts such as 'hope addiction', as introduced in the book, encourages you to transition from a passive state of waiting for opportunities to actively seeking them out. The importance of mentorship is also discussed, highlighting how surrounding yourself with the right influencers can create pathways to success. Moreover, embracing the right mindset allows you to align your actions with your goals. Moving away from a “one day mentality” to taking concrete steps today can spark motivation and bring clarity to your objectives. As the author reflectively learns, growth comes from facing obstacles and cultivating resilience, especially when inspiring others, such as children, to believe in themselves. Ultimately, the journey of self-improvement is dynamic, offering continuous opportunities to evolve into your best self. Recognizing and using available resources, including mentorship and self-help literature, is key to unlocking your potential and achieving lasting success.
