#gettoknowme Iâm your new midsize mom best friend đ
After losing myself postpartum, I tried really hard to find myself again to dress cute and take care of myself. Now that I am on the other side, I want to share everything with you to help guide you through that journey and find your style in motherhood.
I have a soft apron, belly, stretch, marks, and loose skin from weight loss, Iâm a size 12 and I love checker print!
My style is casual, with influences from Boho, western, dark academia as well as whimsy Goth influences.
Iâm an elder emo in my early 30s with two little ones living in the PNW đ I canât wait to get to know you all!
2024/12/8 Edited to
... Read moreHey gorgeous moms! I mentioned my personal style journey, and I know many of you are looking for practical tips on how to dress your midsize body after having kids. It's totally possible to feel cute and confident, even with a soft belly or stretch marks â trust me, I've been there! Finding your style in motherhood isn't about hiding your body; it's about celebrating it and making fashion work for *you*.
Let's dive into some real-life 'proper friends mom clothes' ideas that blend comfort with style. First things first, focus on pieces that make you feel good. For me, that often means high-waisted jeans or comfortable leggings that offer good support. They're perfect for running after little ones while still looking put-together. Don't shy away from layering! A versatile brown sweater, like the one I'm often rocking in my photos, can be dressed up or down effortlessly. Pair it with a simple cami for warmer days or layer it over a long-sleeve tee when it's chilly. Layering is a midsize mom's superpower for adapting to unpredictable weather and even hiding a little spit-up stain in a pinch!
When it comes to midsize mom style inspiration, it's all about mixing high-comfort with your personal flair. You saw I love checker print, but I also love to incorporate elements like a playful plaid skirt. Yes, a skirt can absolutely be mom-friendly! Look for midi or maxi skirts with elastic waistbands or comfortable A-line cuts. They move with you and can be super chic, offering a nice alternative to pants. For a touch of my Boho/Western side, I adore adding accessories like a fringed scarf. It instantly elevates a simple outfit, adds a pop of texture, and can even double as a light blanket for your little one in a pinch â total mom hack! These little details are what truly make an outfit *yours*.
Think about versatile pieces that can transition seamlessly from park playdates to casual coffee dates or even a quick work-from-home video call. Comfortable, stylish sneakers are a non-negotiable for busy moms, but don't forget a cute pair of ankle boots for that Western or Dark Academia vibe when you want to feel a bit more elevated. And for all my elder emo moms out there, don't be afraid to add a touch of whimsy Goth with a dark lip, some edgy jewelry, or a band tee layered under a cardigan or denim jacket. These small nods to your personal history can make a huge difference in how confident and authentic you feel.
One of the biggest lessons I learned postpartum is the importance of comfortable fabrics. Look for soft cottons, breathable linens, and stretchy blends that move with your body rather than restricting it. Investing in a few quality basics â think well-fitting t-shirts, a classic denim jacket, and versatile dark wash jeans â can provide the foundation for countless outfits. Then, add your personality with fun prints, statement accessories, and unique layering pieces. Remember, the goal is to feel comfortable, confident, and authentically you in your midsize body, no matter what your day throws at you. What are your go-to mom-friendly pieces that make you feel amazing?
Itâs beautiful moms like you that have helped me in the thick of it! I know my body isnât going back to ânormalâ after this but seeing the midsize mamas shining and thriving have helped so much. My mom shamed us constantly about weight and looks growing up so creators like you are my âbig sistersâ in learning to accept and celebrate my body in this new stage of life. â¤ī¸đĨ°
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