Gym girlies!! Help me out!!

Hey girls! I don’t usually post on these kinds of platforms but I’m in desperate need of some help!

I’ve currently just finished my first year of college and was unfortunately a victim to the freshman 15. At this point in life I’ve excepted my curviness but I still would like to slim down to show off more of my prettier curves, if you get what I mean. It’s no longer about being skinny for me, I’ve been healed from that part of myself with the help of my loving boyfriend 😊 but some days I feel a little out of place next to him, like I’m not skinny enough to look good by his tall and skinny side. 😂 I know that it’s completely just a mindset but I would like to try some new things to hopefully make me feel and look healthier and more myself!

A little side note: I’ve always struggled with being about to say no when it comes to food, even foods that I’m allergic to, like gluten and dairy, and that I know will hurt my body by eating. I’m trying to gain control of the amount of sugar or unhealthy food I eat a day to slowly wean myself out of the habit off and on. This is something that I’ve struggled with for years: mentally feeling good about my weight one day and then feeling fat another day. I would love some tips on what else I can do mentally and physically for myself! Especially when it comes to calorie deficits and all that!

I would love to know what ya’ll think!!❤️

I’m 186 rn and my goal is 150-160! (I hope that’s a reasonable goal..!)

2025/7/2 Edited to

... Read moreAs a college freshman, it's not uncommon to face challenges relating to body image and managing weight. The 'freshman 15' phenomenon can be disheartening, but it's essential to approach weight loss with a healthy mindset. Instead of fixating solely on numbers, consider adopting a holistic perspective that includes mental well-being. Begin by focusing on nutritious, balanced meals that nourish your body. Implementing mindful eating practices will help you recognize hunger cues, leading to more intuitive food choices. Additionally, engage in regular physical activity that you enjoy, whether it's joining a gym, participating in group workouts, or exploring activities like hiking or dancing. These exercises not only promote weight loss but also boost your mood and confidence. Mental health plays a crucial role in your weight loss journey. Surround yourself with supportive friends and communities, whether online or in person. Discussing your experiences and sharing your goals can help alleviate feelings of isolation and encourage accountability. Remember that it's okay to seek professional support from a therapist or nutritionist who specializes in body positivity and healthy eating habits. They can provide personalized guidance tailored to your needs. Embrace the journey, celebrating small victories along the way while maintaining compassion for yourself. The goal is not just to lose weight but to foster a healthy relationship with your body and mind.

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pilates isn't technically for weight loss but i used it alongside cardio! it really helped me tone all my muscles which made me end up looking slimmer too! plus when i do the longer ones (45 mins+) i always burn at least 200 calories even though it's super low impact

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