How did a NYC Girl move to Jersey?
✨ Pros: Fresh Start
✨ Pros: Cheaper & shorter work commute ( I applied to a job opening in the airport only available at EWR)
✨ Pros: Cheaper cost of living ( even though this economy is sh*t)
✨ Pros: Cheaper Gas
✨ Pros: Silence … a sense of peace that I didn’t know prior
✨ Pros: I constantly felt like no matter what I accomplished I was stuck… no improvements made
✨ Pros: Away from distractions and solitude to get a clear understanding of what I need
✨ Pros: Starting putting myself first
✨ Pros: I feel like an adult ( do not recommend)
✨ Pros: THEY HAVE WALMART
✨ Pros:WHEN YOU GO SHOPPING THERES PARKING
✨ Pros: Get to make my own rules at home
✨ Pros: Get to live w/ my boyfriend
✨ Pros: It was a goal since I was in middle school
✨ Pros: It feels like I have make my teenage self proud everyday
✨ Pros: Leaving my house and coming home grateful everyday
✨ Pros: Motives to work harder for what I have so I don’t lose it
👀 Cons: Sometimes I feel lonely
👀 Cons: Sometimes my partner and I get home sick
👀 Cons: I have more FOMO
👀 Cons: Paying tolls to see family or friends
👀 Cons: Family and friends don’t visit as often as I thought they would
👀 Cons: Feels like no matter how present we are ; no one truly appreciates us being present
👀 Cons: TRAFFIC HERE IS INSANEEEEEEEEE
👀 Cons: Silent hours
👀 Cons: people call the police for everything
👀 Cons: EVERYTHING CLOSES EARLY
👀 Cons: No alcohol sold after 10 pm
👀 Cons: My normal Isolations are much longer and feels like im not involved in people who I care about life anymore
👀 Cons: I finally became an aunt and I moved away
👀 Cons: I don’t see my parents everyday
👀 Cons: I don’t see my siblings
OVERALLLLLLLLLL….. I do not regret it at all. Is it hard. Hell yes. Is it worth it? Hell yes! Do I have to work harder to do things I did easily before? YESSS
Relocating from New York City to New Jersey can be a transformative experience, filled with both excitement and challenges. For many, the allure of lower living costs, peaceful surroundings, and the chance for a fresh start outweighs the drawbacks. A major pro of moving to Jersey is the more manageable commute; especially for those seeking job opportunities at places like Newark Liberty International Airport (EWR). One significant advantage is the cost of living, which is generally lower than that of NYC. This can include cheaper housing, gas prices, and even groceries, meaning your paycheck stretches further. However, adapting to a new environment comes with its own set of challenges. Many who move report feelings of homesickness or loneliness, especially if family and friends are left behind in the bustling city. It's not uncommon to experience a sense of isolation as you adjust to quieter surroundings. Traffic can also become a major frustration, particularly for those commuting to NYC for work or visiting relatives. These mixed feelings are common in the relocation experience, as new settings require individuals to recalibrate their social lives and daily routines. Overall, while moving from NYC to Jersey can be tough, many find it rewarding in the long run. With determination and a positive mindset, new residents can uncover opportunities for growth and a fulfilling lifestyle, making the effort to adapt worthwhile.
You look so beautiful 🥰🔥😍