When you’re 35 weeks pregnant, it feels like the finish line is in sight, doesn't it? The excitement is bubbling, but maybe so are a million other thoughts – from prepping the nursery to wondering what life will be like with a newborn again. I remember those weeks so vividly, the mix of anticipation and exhaustion. It’s also a time when many of us, myself included, start to ponder our family's future. Will this be our last? Or will baby fever strike again down the line? I've shared my 'unpopular opinion' before, and it really hits home when you're in the thick of it: just because you have baby fever, doesn't mean you need another baby. As a mom who eventually decided to stop at three kids, even after having my tubes tied, I've navigated those feelings. There’s a societal whisper that often encourages "more, more, more," but I truly believe there's immense beauty and fulfillment in being content with what you have right now. It takes a conscious effort to challenge that innate human desire for 'more' and instead appreciate the 'enough.' During my pregnancies, and even after, that familiar pang of wanting another little one would sometimes surface. But my husband and I had some deep conversations, especially after our third, about our capacity – not just financially, but emotionally and energetically. We realized that our greatest desire wasn't to expand our family endlessly, but to truly cherish and embrace every single moment with the beautiful children God had already given us. This shift in perspective was monumental for us. It's easy to get caught up in the idea of the next milestone, the next baby. But I've learned the importance of hitting pause, of truly 'stopping to smell the roses' with my kids. Instead of constantly looking ahead, I want to be present, watching them grow up right now, enjoying their unique stages without the constant longing for a new beginning. This means being intentional about playtime, listening to their stories, and just soaking in their presence. If you're 35 weeks pregnant, perhaps you're also wrestling with similar thoughts. My advice, from one mom to another, is to listen to your own heart and your family's needs. Don't let external pressures or even fleeting feelings dictate your long-term journey. It's okay to decide your family is complete, or to want more time with the kids you have before considering another. Finding contentment isn't about denying love for a new baby; it's about fully immersing yourself in the love you already have and recognizing its profound depth. It’s a powerful and liberating feeling to say, "This is enough, and it is wonderful." Embrace this precious time, because it truly flies by, and these moments are irreplaceable.