Taking a great photo with others, especially men, can often feel like a funny yet frustrating challenge. From my experience, the difficulty lies in the effort to appear 'normal' or relaxed on camera. Men, in particular, sometimes overthink their expressions or become stiff, leading to less natural photos. What I've found helpful is to keep the mood light and avoid focusing too much on 'perfect poses.' Instead, encourage casual interactions or candid moments which tend to capture genuine smiles and expressions. Sometimes, making silly jokes or doing something unexpected right before the photo can break the tension and make everyone more comfortable. I also realized that lighting and timing matter a lot. Taking photos during golden hour or when everyone is already in a good mood makes a significant difference. Using continuous burst mode on your camera or phone can help you capture several candid shots so you can pick the natural-looking one. Overall, the key is patience and creating a relaxed environment rather than forcing perfect smiles or serious poses. Men's natural hesitance to appear in 'normal' photos is common, but with time and practice, group photos can become enjoyable memories instead of a mission.