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Complaining boyfriends playing games with women, are we idiots?

Actually, we've been dating a girlfriend for 7 years. Usually, a girlfriend plays games with someone, a gay guy, a homosexual. In the past, we never complained.

Even if he played all day talking discord all night, we never said

But most recently, this is us saying it's too much for us.

The thing is, he played a game where he set up Gilkan.

There was a woman. At first we didn't say anything, heard everything.

Until people in Gil started asking about the address of this woman and started asking for Facebook

Ask AIG to see any real pictures, but the woman won't. The person in Gil said

For our girlfriend to ask. Around that time, we told the girlfriend that

"Tell people you don't have a boyfriend."

But our girlfriend said, "Why do you have to tell?

Nobody says they have a girlfriend. "

We let go, but it grew increasingly offensive.

In Diss like to talk about two-pronged things. Talk about porn clips.

Which in Dis there is a woman We warned carefully that talking like this is not good or not

Or say, "Can't talk like this, my girlfriend is listening."

Our girlfriend answered the same word, "Why do you have to tell other people that you have a girlfriend?"

We let go for a long time. What are you talking about? We don't care at all.

Until one day we started to feel like our girlfriends started talking to themselves about being interesting.

Like, like, like, exaggerated, like,

I'm an athlete, a footballer. I've been on TV too.

I'm 185 tall. People like to tell me like The Toy.

Well, we listen. Do we feel like he wants the director to be interested?

We're just teasing like, well, boastful, not even 185.

But we're getting very upset.

Until 1-2 days have passed, the day when the boiling point is that we hear our girlfriend.

Calling that woman's name day and night, dragging each other to other games.

The end of the game is really inviting to talk nonsense all day.

Almost 24 hours, waking up again, still calling that woman's name.

Which every day never calls us. Just ask what to eat. Go down to get some rice.

So we complained that it was really upsetting, and then complained for a long time about him calling this woman's name all day.

The end of one game is also inviting to play other games.

We told him that

Some people don't even let fans play games with other women.

He came. Arguing with us that other people are not stupid like us.

Find out we've been staring at him for a long time. Find out we're too wrong.

So we can only give the decisive word to continue playing games with this person.

But, "Don't call this woman's name or hear it.

The voice of this woman again, if you want to talk to me, you can type, you can put on your headphones, but don't let me hear it again. "

They still play games together today, they still talk to us about names, but we assume a decisive warning.

We don't talk, but when we grunt him, we're stupid.

We want to know if we're stupid. Are we too much?

If it's another woman, is he really okay?

That our fans do not dare to tell people in the game who do not know that they have a girlfriend

Is it okay that he doesn't honor the girlfriend sitting next to him?

# Game addicted fans # Talk # Men addicted to games # Request for comment

2025/8/6 Edited to

... Read moreเราเคยอยู่ในจุดที่สับสนเหมือนกันว่า “แฟนเล่นเกมกับผู้หญิง เรางี่เง่าไปไหม” จนมานั่งแยกประเด็นให้ชัดๆ แล้วรู้สึกว่ามันไม่ใช่เรื่อง “ห้ามเล่นกับเพศไหน” อย่างเดียว แต่มันคือเรื่อง “ขอบเขต” และ “การให้เกียรติคนที่คบกัน” มากกว่า 1) ลองแยกให้ออก: หึง vs ไม่สบายใจเพราะพฤติกรรม ถ้าแฟนเล่นเกมกับผญ.แบบปกติ พูดคุยเรื่องเกม ช่วยกันลงดันเจี้ยน/จัดทีม แล้วเรายังรู้สึกหึงเล็กๆ อันนี้อาจเป็นความไม่มั่นใจที่คุยกันได้ แต่กรณีที่เริ่มมีการเรียกชื่อกันทั้งวัน ชวนไปต่อเกมอื่นเรื่อยๆ คุยไร้สาระนานๆ หรือมีคุยสองแง่สองง่าม/เรื่องคลิปโป๊ในดิสคอร์ด ทั้งที่เรานั่งอยู่ข้างๆ แบบนี้มันเข้าข่าย “ทำให้แฟนรู้สึกไม่ปลอดภัยในความสัมพันธ์” ซึ่งไม่ใช่ความงี่เง่าเลย 2) ประเด็น “ทำไมต้องบอกว่ามีแฟน” จริงๆ สื่อถึงอะไร หลายคนอาจไม่ได้ประกาศตัวว่ามีแฟนในทุกที่ก็จริง แต่ถ้าบริบทคือมีคนในกิลด์เริ่มขอเฟส ขอไอจี ขอรูป และให้แฟนเราไปช่วยขอให้ แบบนี้มันเริ่มเป็นพื้นที่จีบ/คุยเชิงชู้สาวแล้ว การที่เขาปฏิเสธจะพูดว่า “มีแฟนแล้ว” ทำให้เรารู้สึกเหมือนเขาอยากเปิดช่องให้คนอื่นคิดได้ว่าโสด หรืออย่างน้อยก็ไม่อยากปิดโอกาสตัวเอง ตรงนี้ควรคุยกันตรงๆ ว่า “เราต้องการความชัดเจนเพื่อความสบายใจ” 3) ตั้งขอบเขตแบบวัดผลได้ (ไม่ใช่ห้ามลอยๆ) แทนที่จะพูดว่า “ห้ามเล่นกับคนนั้น” ลองเปลี่ยนเป็นข้อตกลงที่ชัด เช่น - ถ้าคุยดิสคอร์ด ให้คุยเรื่องเกมเป็นหลัก ไม่คุยเรื่องเพศ/คลิปโป๊ - จำกัดเวลาเล่น เช่น วันละกี่ชม. หรือมีเวลาแฟน/เวลาคู่รักชัดๆ - ถ้ามีคนขอช่องทางส่วนตัว/ขอรูป ให้ตอบปฏิเสธแบบให้เกียรติความสัมพันธ์ - ถ้าต้องเล่นกับเพื่อนต่างเพศ ให้โปร่งใส ไม่ปิดบัง ไม่หลบไปคุยลับๆ ขอบเขตที่ดีคือ “ทำได้จริง” และ “ทั้งคู่รู้สึกแฟร์” 4) สัญญาณที่ควรระวังในเคสแฟนติดเกมกันไหม คำถามว่าเคยมีแฟนติดเกมกันไหม หลายคู่เจอปัญหาไม่ใช่แค่เวลาหาย แต่คือความสำคัญที่ถูกย้ายไปอยู่ในเกม เช่น ตื่นมาก็เรียกชื่อคนในเกมก่อน ไม่คุยกับเรา ไม่ใส่ใจเรา หรือให้เราเป็นคน “บริการ” เรื่องข้าวน้ำ แต่ให้พลังงานทางอารมณ์กับคนในดิสแทน ถ้าเริ่มเป็นแบบนี้ควรคุยเรื่อง “ความสัมพันธ์กำลังถูกละเลย” มากกว่าด่ากันว่าใครงี่เง่า 5) วิธีคุยให้ไม่กลายเป็นทะเลาะ ลองคุยแบบใช้ความรู้สึกของเราเป็นหลัก เช่น “เรารู้สึกไม่ถูกให้เกียรติ เวลาได้ยินคุยสองแง่สองง่ามต่อหน้าเรา และเวลาที่เธอไม่ยอมบอกว่ามีแฟนในสถานการณ์ที่คนอื่นกำลังขอช่องทางส่วนตัว เราอยากให้เรามีกติกาที่ทำให้เราสบายใจและเธอก็ยังเล่นเกมได้” แล้วขอคำตอบที่เป็นรูปธรรมว่าเขาพร้อมปรับอะไรได้บ้าง สุดท้าย ถ้าเราตั้งขอบเขตชัดเจนแล้วเขายังทำซ้ำ และใช้คำว่า “งี่เง่า” กดเราแทนการแก้ปัญหา อันนี้ไม่ใช่เรื่องเกมอย่างเดียวแล้ว แต่เป็นเรื่องทัศนคติในการเคารพความรู้สึกกันด้วย ซึ่งควรจริงจังกับมันค่ะ

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