leaps and bounds
you’re leaps and bounds ahead, they say.
you’re so successful!
so mature for your age,
so professional. so far ahead.
leaps and bounds ahead.
but. really…
leaps and bounds ahead of who?
the college roommate with her friends and fun?
the one you secretly envied for her freedom?
her sense of self love?
leaps and bounds ahead of your highschool classmates?
as if that matters now.
but it’s for your future,
they say.
setting yourself up for success!
a good example for others!
they press on.
but what about me.
i feel too.
i feel leaps and bounds.
leaps and bounds behind that carefree girl running in the sun.
behind the dreams i once dreamt.
leaps and bounds behind the success
i sought
for myself.
leaps and bounds apart.
In today’s fast-paced world, it is common to feel pressure to excel and compare ourselves to others. Many individuals struggle with the notion of being 'leaps and bounds' ahead or behind their peers. This emotional tug-of-war can lead to feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. It’s essential to recognize that success looks different for everyone and that personal growth is a unique journey. Self-love plays a crucial role in this journey. Practicing self-care and acknowledging our intrinsic value can help combat feelings of envy and comparison. Instead of measuring success against others, we can shift our perspective to appreciate our achievements and the progress we've made. Embracing our individuality allows us to celebrate small victories along the way. The journey to success is often not linear. Many find inspiration in the stories of those who have faced obstacles and emerged stronger. Understanding that it's normal to feel 'behind' at times can relieve the pressure we place on ourselves. Building a supportive community can also foster an environment where we can uplift each other, share our experiences, and grow together. Ultimately, success should not solely be defined by external milestones. It’s a personal journey that encompasses fulfillment and happiness. Recognizing our unique paths will not only enhance our sense of self-worth but also enable us to foster authentic connections with those around us.