I was born in United States but made to love my other side version 🫰🏻
Growing up in the United States while deeply appreciating another cultural heritage has been a unique and enriching experience for me. It’s not uncommon to feel a blend of pride and curiosity as you navigate the dual aspects of your identity. For many like myself, this means embracing the traditions, language, and values of “my other side,” even though I was born and raised in a distinctly different environment. At times, this cultural duality can be a source of confusion. For instance, others might not always understand the mixture of expressions or behaviors that reflect my blended background—sometimes leading to funny or confusing moments, such as when someone comments, “I don't know even what she said” or that “she’s foreign.” These moments, while challenging, are also opportunities to educate and celebrate diversity. I’ve found that the more I open up about my experiences and share how my multicultural roots shape my worldview, the more I connect with others who either share similar experiences or appreciate the richness of cultural diversity. Loving your other side means honoring the languages, cuisines, holidays, and values that may differ from the mainstream, while also valuing your U.S. upbringing. Being proud of your hybrid identity encourages greater empathy and openness – traits crucial for today’s global society. Whether connecting over a traditional meal, practicing a cultural custom, or simply reflecting on family stories, these elements bring a deeper sense of self and belonging. For anyone grappling with their multicultural identity, my advice is to embrace every part of your heritage fully. Celebrate the diversity within yourself as a source of strength and uniqueness. It’s a beautiful journey of self-discovery and acceptance that enriches not only your life but also those around you.


