Walking life alone !
Here I am… almost 42, and somehow I’m still trying to figure out what it feels like to truly belong. 🙄
I think that’s why I love stories so much.
I want the Pooh to my Eeyore.
The Tully to my Kate.
The Noah to my Allie.
The Aladdin to my Jasmine.
The Joy to my Anxiety.
Not because life has to be a fairytale… but because everyone deserves people who make them feel seen, remembered, and chosen.
People always tell me, “Go do things by yourself! Don’t wait on anyone. Take yourself on dates!” So… following everyone’s advice… 🙄
I already have enough time at home alone, and when I say I want a solo Disney trip, I expect nobody to ask me, “Why will you do that?” Just like I learned with military life and how to be a single mom, I am learning to do my favorite things alone.
Here I am, sitting at a fancy breakfast… alone.
I even got dressed up to put myself in a better mood, thinking maybe getting out of the house would help…
…and boom.
Here I am.
Still wishing I had someone to laugh with over coffee, share a random conversation with, or just enjoy the moment beside me.
Don’t get me wrong—I absolutely believe we should learn to enjoy our own company. And I do. But enjoying your own company doesn’t magically erase the human need for connection.
I’m an actions speak louder than words kind of person. Kind words are wonderful, but making time for people, checking in, showing up, and creating memories together… that’s what means the most to me.
I’m not the prettiest.
I’m not the funniest.
But I love deeply. I’ll hype you up, laugh until my stomach hurts, cry during Disney movies, and probably send you way too many memes. 🤣 You’ll never be bored with me.
Maybe this is just one of those seasons of life where everyone is busy, overwhelmed, and trying to survive.
But if you’ve been feeling lonely too… you’re not the only one.
Until then… this Eeyore heart will keep believing there’s a Pooh out there somewhere. 💛🩶✨
Navigating the journey of walking life alone can be both challenging and enlightening. From personal experience, I've found that embracing solitude is not about giving up on connection but rather about learning to cherish moments with yourself first. Taking yourself out for a solo breakfast at a cozy café or planning a Disney trip alone, as some might suggest, can initially feel intimidating or even lonely. But these experiences also offer unique opportunities to reflect, grow, and discover what truly brings joy. One helpful practice I've adopted is to consciously seek small connections throughout my day—even when alone. Whether it's sharing a smile with someone at the juice bar or chatting briefly with a barista, these tiny social moments can add warmth and a sense of belonging. It’s important to recognize that feeling lonely does not mean you're alone. Many people are quietly longing for the same companionship but are absorbed in their own busy lives. Stories and beloved character pairings like Pooh and Eeyore resonate deeply because they remind us of the importance of being seen and chosen. These narratives inspire hope that, in time, our people will come along—those who understand our quirks and love us for who we truly are. Meanwhile, practicing kindness toward ourselves by dressing up to boost our mood or engaging in things that make us happy can nurture self-love. Remember, enjoying your own company does not erase the need for connection; nurturing meaningful relationships when possible will enrich life even more. Showing up for others, making time for shared memories, and being an authentic presence are invaluable. Trust in the seasons of life and hold on to hope that your Pooh is out there, waiting to be found.
