It’s not cute 🙃

I get that body dysmorphia is real. I really do.

But can we not call ourselves “so fat” when we’re standing right next to someone clearly bigger?

Like… how do you expect that to feel for the other person?

We can talk about insecurities without making others feel worse about theirs.

Has anyone else been in this situation?

#AskLemon8 #LetsChat #BodyPositivity

2025/8/12 Edited to

... Read moreBody dysmorphia and self-image issues are complex and deeply personal experiences that can affect anyone. While it is important to acknowledge our own insecurities, using phrases like "I'm so fat" in front of someone who may be larger can unintentionally hurt others and undermine shared efforts toward body positivity. This behavior can create unnecessary comparisons, which often lead to feelings of inadequacy or shame for both parties. Encouraging open and empathetic conversations about body image helps cultivate an environment where people can share their struggles without fear of comparison or judgment. Instead of focusing on negative descriptors of ourselves, it’s more constructive to emphasize self-acceptance and healthy habits. The phrase from the image in the article, "PLS STOP CALLING YOURSELF FAT IN FRONT OF SOMEONE BIGGER THAN YOU," powerfully highlights this concern and invites reflection on how our words affect those around us. Recognizing the interconnectedness of our experiences with body image can promote kindness and understanding, making it easier for individuals to support one another. Navigating body insecurities involves fostering resilience and encouraging a mindset that values diversity in body shapes and sizes. Body positivity is not merely about appearance but about mental and emotional well-being. By being mindful of how we speak about ourselves, we contribute to a more inclusive and uplifting culture where people of all shapes feel respected and valued.

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yes like my best friend is reeeaaalllyyyy skinny because her dad has a genetic disorder that somehow eats his weight or smth like that and she has half of it or smth, and im not fat cause I've lost a bit of weight but im a solid 25lbs heavier then her at only like 2 or 3in taller, so whenever she calls herself fat I feel rlly bad cause like if ur fat wth am I a freaking elephant

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