The end of a friendship

Can we talk about friendships ending and why it’s so hard to understand.

Lately I’ve been just giving so much to God and letting it be. Praying for the people that I once held close and now won’t even look in their direction if I see them out.

Does anyone else struggle with friendships that ended? I can say that I only ended one friendship from my side completely. But others were ended either mutually or on me.

Which brings me to say that sometimes I was the problem in the friendship. But thought I was a saving grace. And sometimes we all thing that we add and add and add to a friendship when realistically we could be taking away.

Anyway. Anyone have tips on how I can just completely let go? I find myself searching up people on social media just to check on them. Knowing they have probably left me in the dust 🥲 helppppp pls

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2024/5/15 Edited to

... Read moreEnding a friendship can bring about a whirlwind of emotions, often leaving us feeling lost and confused. It's essential to acknowledge that the process of losing a friend can be just as painful as losing a romantic partner. Reflection on past relationships can help us identify patterns in our behavior and understand our role in the friendship dynamic. For many, the challenge lies in the reluctance to let go. This might stem from a deep-rooted fear of isolation or a desire to hold onto memories that were once cherished. Engaging in self-reflection can pave the way toward healing. Journaling about your feelings, talking to a trusted friend, or seeking professional guidance can be beneficial steps in processing these emotions. Additionally, it can be helpful to establish boundaries in your own life. If social media is complicating your emotional recovery, consider taking a break or unfollowing former friends. Focus on your personal growth and surround yourself with supportive individuals who uplift you. Remember, while friendships can change, the love and lessons once shared can still remain close to your heart. Embrace vulnerability as you navigate this painful, yet vital, part of personal growth.

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