Audhd fibromyalgia and eds
unfortunately some of our conditions weren't meant to live at a fast paces either. rushing automatically makes my audhd worse and really can mess with my ability to get ready without rushing and panicking about being late( which also makes me clumsy). I also have a daughter with autism and she is high functioning and thrives on hyperfocusing on what she's good at. I'm so proud of all the things she's been able to accomplish even with her autism and pmos. she's fought for her right to have accommodations in the workplace and for her right to be treated fairly. just because some of us have medical problems doesn't mean that we aren't good at some things or don't want to work. I have so many health problems that I had to promise my daughter I will not try to work again because I always end up in the hospital. and thankfully through her own issues she's still being able to maintain working full time and going to school online. she's 29 years old and working on her Masters and I couldn't be more proud. #audhd #disablityawareness #unfiltered #thisisme
Living with conditions such as AUDHD, fibromyalgia, and Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS) often means adjusting to a slower pace of life, as rushing can significantly worsen symptoms. From personal experience, the pressure to keep up with daily demands or be punctual can exacerbate anxiety and affect coordination, making seemingly simple tasks much harder. Supporting a family member with autism adds another layer of insight into managing neurodiverse conditions. My daughter’s remarkable ability to hyperfocus has been a key strength, allowing her to excel academically and professionally despite challenges. She’s fought for and secured important workplace accommodations, proving that with the right support, people with disabilities can thrive and contribute meaningfully. This highlights an important message: chronic health issues or disabilities do not define a person’s capabilities or ambitions. For many with overlapping conditions like these, pacing yourself and practicing deep presence are essential. It’s about embracing slowness without guilt—focusing on connection, care, and self-compassion rather than speed. Nature and laughter serve as healing forces, offering moments of respite and grounding. I’ve learned that acknowledging limitations helps prevent hospitalizations and crisis moments. Making peace with the need to stop working in high-stress environments has been difficult but necessary for health. Meanwhile, witnessing my daughter balance full-time work and graduate studies online fuels my pride and hope. Ultimately, this journey illuminates the importance of community, understanding, and advocating for accessibility. Living with these complex conditions means redefining success and learning to celebrate perseverance, no matter the pace.