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What Would You Do?

Hello, his name is Jao. He is 18 years old. He met this guy at the age of 16. Let me tell you that he knew this guy through the game app. This guy is good at talking, good at playing games, not good looking, moderate financial status. We talked for 1 year and decided to date.

During the relationship, this guy borrowed 3,000 +, but all night + night on time. He reasoned that the bank he used collapsed. When he borrowed a lot, we said that he did not change the bank once.

It made this man lose any reason to quote. Then he stopped borrowing us. After several months, he came to tell us that he had played 4 hundred thousand shares at the time, he was exhausted, so he borrowed us to play. At that time, we were shocked that he borrowed us to play stocks?? But when he borrowed, he didn't say this. And if he was exhausted again, where would he take it back? But in comparison, now this guy can set up and we have a bank app that can see the balance of each other and can not withdraw the other person. Just see the increase in the amount of money in the account, so we think that he has changed. That's why we are okay to stay with this guy. While together, they always feed. But we will not see each other often because they are far away. The cost of oil is expensive. Our parents are not okay with the man. With too far apart in age, we study, they work, so they come to find each other. Not often, as mentioned above, we can see the movement of money in each other's accounts. On the day of the movie, we see the money in their accounts go out by tens of thousands, we wonder where they go out. They admit to playing shares. Almost all of them, then there was 80,000 missing 50,000.

We were discouraged. Told him to play with some limits. Now we started to feel unokay with this guy. We started to get bored of him. He started to feel that he didn't rely on it but we didn't dare to leave him. We were a little worried about his feelings until recently he collected 100,000 (within 3 years of dating). There were some falling, some getting up hard. He decided to tell us that he was going to put the money in debt. We were okay. After a day he said that there was a stock web that just added up the money to get the money back. At that time, we weren't sure what it was. Personally, I didn't play stocks, so let him do it. And when As time passed, he told us that he now has 2 hundred thousand. We were very happy with his success. But the next day he said that he had something to consult. This is the matter. We were a little shocked what it was. He said that last night he was stressed and still had a headache last night. He went to trade on the new website. It was a cheating website. Now he runs out of money. It seems that when the profit has to be added, he has already traded 2 hundred thousand. But he just came to know that he can't withdraw the money as a condition to withdraw. But he can't withdraw. Now to know that he has been cheated, can he borrow 20000 thousand? Come to save my life for a month because the oil cost is heavy. Not enough to trade. He will spend 4 thousand a month to pay for 6 months. I will get 4000 interest. He is really stupid. Accept it. Can you help him? Now, I've been tricked for the first time. Fel descent. But not that you have to let Bebi consider it. Today, he really falls. Or if you see that his actions are stupid and pathetic or worthy and think again, he is not angry with Bebi.

Well, like I said, he went to trade shares and couldn't withdraw them. It's like a bootleg broker, it's no different than Mij. It's simply that he was cheated over two hundred thousand. At first we understood that this guy was exhausted in the first hundred, but there were still 50,000 deposited with his mother, so we asked him, he said that he stuffed it with a debt badge and put all the shares here.

So we asked if he told his mother yet. He told me yet. He had something to tell. He didn't close each other. In case, he was depressed. He just came to be. He was stressed a lot of things, but he didn't know how to vent. The day she asked to take the pill was that, but not the depressants, just the relaxants, caused by accumulated stress, missed investment periods + past traumas, but if he was with us, he wouldn't have symptoms. He would be very okay.

We saw that there was pity. So we helped him 10,000, considered the oil cost to come to + the value that he used to feed.

After a while, he said that he had won the lottery for 30,000 and then transferred us back.

We felt strange, so we asked him if he was right, right?

He has a serious matter to consult this one. Actually, he did not win the lottery. But he returned the money, he thought to give up. He was honest. Now he has no money at all. He asked to clear everything. He repeatedly asked if he loved him. It was a little encouragement. He asked his mother if he was away. Mom and brother would be more comfortable. Maybe because of depression. He doesn't know why he has plummeted so much. He has been quiet lately. But when the words from his mother, he was encouraged to fight. Can he borrow 10000 as before? Use 2 thousand a month as before. Can't speak. Mom, can we type to talk? Sorry to bother you.

Yes, this is how it is. Please consult me. Now I feel very disappointed with this man. Looks bad. There are a few ideas. The finances are depressed. We do not know the reason to stay with this man. We still stay for the sake of having taken care of each other.

Please bother the brothers and sisters. Comment guidance.

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