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Have been together for a long time... but never moved the status

Here are five solutions to do before it's late.

It exists that

6 months, 8 months, 1 year

Everything is like a girlfriend

Except for the word "boyfriend."

You start asking yourself gently.

"Or do we think for ourselves?"

5 solutions

1️⃣. Stop in his comfort area.

If he's comfortable, he won't change.

2️⃣ Stop acting like

Easy-to-come certainty makes him in no hurry.

3️⃣ measure his investment, not your feelings.

Look at long-term actions, not sweet words.

4️⃣. Set your own timeline.

You don't have to wait deadline.

5️⃣ asked himself, "Am I worthy of clear standing?"

If the answer is yes, you have to act like that.

If you've been talking for a long time, don't move.

Don't expect it to clear up yourself.

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Teach you how to change from "keep dating."

It's "He chose you."

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