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The Autistic Caucus

The Autistic Caucus was a success at Creating Change 2025 Las Vegas

50+ autistic queer people showed up and participated. We had discussions about everything from stimming to dating, ways we deal with meltdowns and disregulation, to getting some free stim toys!

One of the topics I found most interesting to chat about with the group was accessibility regarding communication devices: giving space to those who rely exclusively on alternative ways to interact with others is hugely important

I'll post some of the video highlights when I get back, just know we're out here, building our community

None of this would be possible without @revolutionrosen the founder, @remysotorodz_chef who is like my long lost sibling and @thegoffinator for being the tech and process expert -- and all of you for supporting my (and our) efforts

Exhausted and also feeling the love

😁🎤💜

#actuallyautistic #autismadvocate #lgbtqia #queer #autismlife #autisticadults #neurodivergent #friends #publicspeaking #love

2025/1/23 Edited to

The Autistic Caucus was a momentous event that brought together a diverse group of over 50 autistic queer individuals at Creating Change 2025 in Las Vegas. Participants engaged in insightful discussions covering a wide array of topics, including the importance of stimming, dealing with meltdowns, and the dynamics of dating within the LGBTQIA+ and autistic communities. One significant highlight was the emphasis on communication accessibility, where participants shared valuable experiences to ensure that everyone, particularly those utilizing alternative communication methods, felt included and supported. The event fostered a spirit of togetherness, showcasing how vital community building is for autistic individuals. Expect to see video highlights that capture the essence of this gathering soon! This event was made possible by dedicated individuals and supporters who work tirelessly for the cause. The ongoing dialogue about mental health, accessibility, and the expression of love and friendship among neurodivergent people is crucial. Initiatives like these are instrumental in creating spaces where everyone can feel valued and understood, promoting a sense of belonging. Conversations around stimming and how it serves as a form of self-regulation were embraced, fostering understanding and solidarity. This emphasizes the need for continuous advocacy and awareness to support autistic and queer identities in mainstream discussions.

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