as soon as a toy is taken, a hand comes out๐ป๐ก๐คฏ๐ญ
It's not limited to toys, but isn't this something that can happen between friends, brothers, and sisters?
Do you ever scold me every time you touch me (although I understand the feeling of getting angry when something you're playing with is suddenly taken away)?
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It can happen every day that a toy is taken, right? Why do we repeat the same thing every day when we are equally careful about the same thing?
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The answer lies in the "brain ๐ง "!
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Young children have very little experience of what happens when they hit or bite someone.
So "handling and mitigating the urge" to hit yourself can be very difficult!
As adults, our brains are mature, so even if there is an annoying or frustrating event, we have information in our prefrontal cortex about what our position would be, what the other person would think, and what would happen if we hit the other person ๐ง
For example,
the director
Many subordinates are lazy and late for work,
Besides, the attitude is arrogant,ใใ
I have to be patient today,
What would happen if I hit or kicked my head?
We are both adults and the manager has a position, so it will be difficult ๐ฎโโ๏ธ
It is said that it takes more than six years from birth to be able to control oneself โผ๏ธ
However, I think it depends on the daily training of parents. I think there are people in the world who find it difficult to do so even after becoming an adult...
As I wrote in the example, if you have a chance to train in your life, please try it โ๏ธ
I gave two specific examples, but let's try various things in other situations!
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There is parenting # annoyed 1 year old # 2 years old 3 years old
ใใกใใใใใกใใๅใใใใจใใๆใๅบใใๆๆใใใใๆญฃ็ดใใฎใใณใซๅฑใฃใฆ็ฒใใฆใใพใใใใงใใใใคใณใใฏโใใฎ็ฌ้ใซๆญฃ่ซใง็ดๅพใใใโใใใใใๆใๅบใๅใใซ็ทด็ฟใใฆใใใใจใงใใใ ใพใ็งใๅคใใใฎใฏใๆญขใใ้ ็ชใงใใโ ๅฎๅ จ็ขบไฟ๏ผๆใใใใใๆผใใใใป่ท้ขใใจใ๏ผโก็ญใ่จ่ใงๅข็็ทใๅฉใใชใใโขๆฐๆใกใฎไปฃๅผใๅใใใฆๅซใ ใฃใใญใโฃๆฌกใฎ่กๅใๆ็คบใ่ฒธใใฆใฃใฆ่จใ๏ผใใๅผใถ๏ผไบคๆใใใใใใฎ้ ใซใใใจใๅญใฉใใ่ฝใก็ใใพใงใๆฉใใฃใใงใใ้ทใ่ชฌๆใฏ่ๅฅฎไธญใฏๅฑใใซใใใฎใงใ่จ่ใฏ็ญใใๆ่ญใใพใใใ ๆฌกใซใโๅใๅใใ่ตทใใๅโใฎไป่พผใฟใ้ใณๅงใใซใซใผใซใไธ่จใ ใๅ ฑๆใใพใใ ใปใ้ ็ชใใญใ ใปใไฝฟใใใๆใฏใใใใฆใใ ใปใๅซใชๆใฏใใใจใงใใ ใใใๆฏๅๅใใใฌใผใบใง่จใใจใ่ณใใใฟใผใณใ่ฆใใใใๆใใใใพใใใ ๅ ทไฝ็ใช็ทด็ฟใจใใฆๅนๆใใใฃใใฎใฏใใใฃใ็ทด็ฟใใงใใใฌใใใใฟ๏ผไพ๏ผใใใกใใใปใใใกใใ๏ผใงใใใใจๅใๅใใๅ็พใใฆใฟใพใใ A๏ผใใใกใใใใใใชใใใใใฆใ B๏ผใใใกใใใใใพใคใใฃใฆใใใใจใงใญใ A๏ผใใใกใใใใใใฃใใ ใใฎโๆๅใใฟใผใณโใๅ ใซ็ต้จใใใใจใๆฌ็ชใงๆใๅบใใใใใชใใพใใใ ใใใงใๆใๅบใๆใฏใ็ธๆใธใฎใใฉใญใผใใปใใใงใใๅคงไธๅคซ๏ผ็ใใฃใใญใใจๅ ใซ็ธๆใๅฎใๅงฟๅขใ่ฆใใไธใงใๅฉใใๅญใซใฏใๅฉใใจ็ธๆใฏ็ใใๅฉใใชใใงใใใใซ่จใใใญใใจ่กๅใฎ็ฝฎใๆใใ ใไผใใพใใ่ฌ็ฝชใฏ่ฝใก็ใใฆใใใงOKใ็ก็ใซใใใใใชใใใใ่จใใใใใใใๆฌกใฉใใใ๏ผใใไธ็ทใซ็ขบ่ชใใๆนใๅ็บใๆธใใพใใใ ๆๅพใซ็ฐๅข่ชฟๆดใๅคงไบใงใใใๅใๅใใซใชใใใใไบบๆฐใใใกใใฏใๅใ็ณป็ตฑใ2ใค็จๆใใ๏ผๆ้ๅถใซใใ๏ผ็ไปใใฆๅฅใฎใใใกใใธๅใๆฟใใใใง่ก็ช่ชไฝใใใชใๆธใใพใใๆฏๆฅ่ตทใใโใใใใโใ ใใใใใๅฑใๅๆฐใๆธใใไป็ตใฟใฅใใใใใกใฐใๅนใใพใใใ
