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📖Why the brain denies itself and 3 ways to gently untie it

"I blamed myself again..."

At such times, it may be "understanding" rather than "reflection" that you want to prioritize.

Little things make me depressed.

Even if I'm praised, I can't take it honestly.

Only bad places catch my eye.

Even if you think "more positively" in your head,

There are times when your heart doesn't follow.

It's never a "weak" or "personality issue."

Actually, there are times when the "habit of the brain" strengthens self-denial 🧠

🌿 Why self-denial never stops, three perspectives

✔ ︎ 1 | Self-denial as a defense response of the brain

Having been hurt in the past,

As a measure to prevent further injury, the brain

You may choose a defense method of "blaming yourself first."

This is a remnant of the time when I thought "failure = being attacked."

It may be a healthy reaction to protect you 🫧

✔ ︎ 2 | Unconsciously clinging to "beliefs"

• "Don't bother people."

• "If you don't do it properly, it's worthless."

• "If you don't do your best, you won't be accepted."

When these "beliefs" are deep,

In any situation, it becomes easy to feel "I am bad."

This was necessary in the environment of the past.

But now, it may be a good thing to let go little by little.

✔ ︎ 3 | Effects of Brain Search Filters

The brain has a tendency to pick up information that matches what you believe.

When I think "I'm a bad person,"

Only mistakes and failures come into our eyes.

In other words, self-denial is also a "specification of the brain."

Without realizing it, I'm picking up materials to blame myself.

🕊️ a small, gentle habit that unwinds self-denial

✅ ① Ask again, "Is that true?"

For example, when you think "I might be hated."

I paused to see if my brain could determine just by the information it picked up.

Just adding "there are other possibilities" and "another perspective" is OK.

✅ ② Say thank you to your past self

The current beliefs and habits,

It may be the "wisdom to survive" that I worked hard in the past.

"You did well, didn't you?" "Thank you."

Please gently talk to yourself 🫧

✅ ③ Take a note of what you have done every day

The brain has the property of receiving "what you see and put into words" as reality.

By focusing on "being able to do it,"

Can you remove the filter of self-denial little by little 🌿

As much as I have been strict with myself,

Now may be a good time to be kind 🕊️

Self-denial is just your brain trying to protect you.

That's why just "noticing" without blaming is a step forward.

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2025/10/15 Edited to

... Read more自己否定の感情は、多くの人が日常的に経験するものですが、それが続くと心の疲労やストレスに繋がることがあります。私自身も小さなミスをした際に「自分はダメだ」と感じてしまい、なかなか気持ちを切り替えられないことが多々ありました。しかし、この記事で紹介されているように、自己否定は脳の防衛反応や思い込み、情報の取り込み方が関係していると知ることで、以前より自分の心にやさしくなれたと思います。 私が特に効果を感じたのは、「それって本当?」と自分の考えを問い直す習慣です。例えば「嫌われているかも」と思ったとき、その考えだけにとらわれず、違う視点を意識的に取り入れることで感情の波が和らぎました。また、過去の自分に「よく頑張ってきたね」と感謝することで自己肯定感が深まりました。これは、自分を責めるクセが脳の生き抜くための知恵であったことを受け入れる大切なステップだと思います。 さらに、毎日「できたこと」を一つメモする習慣もおすすめです。脳は見たものや言葉にしたことを現実として認識しやすいため、できたことに目を向けることで自己否定のフィルターが徐々に薄れていきました。たとえ小さなことであっても、「今日は挨拶できた」「仕事に集中できた」などポジティブな事柄を書き留めると、自己受容感が自然と高まっていきます。 脳のクセと向き合うことは簡単ではありませんが、無理に変えようとせず、少しずつやさしい習慣を積み重ねることが重要です。自己否定の背景にはあなたを守るための脳の仕組みがあり、そのことに気づくことで、自分を責めるのをやめる一歩を踏み出せるはずです。心が辛い時、この記事の方法を思い出してやさしく自分に寄り添ってみてください。

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