11-15-2020

I still remember the day I met Abraham. He was just a tiny 5-month-old Olde English Bulldog puppy, surrendered by a breeder because of a malformed spine. My heart broke when I heard how three different vets had all suggested euthanasia for him. He was also urinary and fecally incontinent, meaning he'd need to wear a diaper when inside. But looking into his sweet, soulful eyes, I knew I couldn't just let him go. Working at the animal hospital, I've seen so many cases, but Abraham truly captured my heart in a way I hadn't expected. Bringing him home as a foster was a leap of faith. I already had three dogs at home, and honestly, I didn't think I needed another one, let alone a special needs puppy. My initial plan was to help him find a loving forever home. But from the moment he waddled into my life with his crooked gait and undeniable charm, I fell completely in love. The 'foster fail' label quickly became my reality, and I wouldn't have it any other way. He's now a permanent fixture in our family. Life with Abraham is certainly unique and requires a bit more dedication than with my other pups. We go through a lot of diapers, and there's always extra cleaning involved to keep him comfortable and our home fresh. Managing his incontinence means being vigilant with changes and ensuring excellent hygiene, but it's a small price to pay for the immense joy he brings. Despite his malformed spine, which gives him a distinctive swagger, his spirit is anything but broken. He's full of life, curiosity, and endless cuddles. He loves to play with his 'siblings' – my other dogs – who have welcomed him with open paws, often licking his face clean after a messy meal or nudging him gently during playtime. It's challenging sometimes, of course. There are more frequent vet visits to monitor his spinal health and ensure his overall well-being. We've had to adapt our home, ensuring easy access to his favorite spots and making sure he's always comfortable. There are moments where I question if I'm doing enough, or if I'm providing him with the best possible life. But then he gives me that signature bulldog snort, or snuggles up close for a nap, and all those worries melt away. He’s taught me so much about resilience, unconditional love, and finding happiness even when things aren't 'perfect.' If you're ever considering fostering or adopting a special needs pet, I wholeheartedly encourage it. Yes, it takes commitment and a bit more effort, and sometimes it can be emotionally draining, but the rewards are truly immeasurable. Abraham came into my life needing a savior, but in reality, he saved a part of me too. He opened my eyes to a different kind of love and responsibility. I truly can't imagine a world without him now. He's not just a dog; he's family, a constant reminder that every life has value, no matter the challenges or the initial prognosis.