He’s kind. Consistent. Says all the right things. And still… you don’t miss him. Even when he pulls away. That doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you. It might just mean your nervous system didn’t feel emotionally safe. Because when you’ve lived with anxious attachment — “perfect” doesn’t always feel like real connection. Sometimes, your anxiety confuses the absence of danger with the absence of chemistry. And real calm? It can feel boring. Or like something’s missing.

💛 If that hit — I created the Relationship Anxiety Workbook for you. To help you untangle love from fear. And finally feel what safe closeness actually feels like. 👉 Link in bio if you’re ready.