It’s 2 AM and I can’t sleep. I was scrolling TikTok and saw you can look up a specific date on the NASA website to see what the sky looked like. I decided to look up the day my mom passed… and I’m so glad I did.
Right there was the name Hercules and that hit me in a way I can’t explain. My mom was so proud to be Greek, and she made sure we were too. It felt like a little sign… or maybe just a reminder of her.
I miss my mom so much.
During moments of loss, finding personal ways to connect with a loved one’s memory can provide profound comfort. I recently discovered that NASA’s website offers a unique feature allowing you to view the sky on any specific date, which can be a beautiful tool for anyone coping with grief. Looking up the date my own family member passed, I found myself drawn to the constellation Hercules — a symbol that carries significant meaning, especially given our Greek heritage. This experience felt like receiving a quiet message from the universe, a gentle reminder that those we love remain with us in spirit. Using this tool late at night became a ritual for me, helping me process my feelings when words failed. It served as a moment of peace, letting me reflect on memories beneath the same stars my loved one once saw. For anyone experiencing loss, creating such intimate rituals can be healing. I encourage others to try this simple yet meaningful method. Whether you identify a constellation, a new star, or even a celestial event that coincides with a special date, it can create a personal symbol of remembrance. Connecting with the cosmos reminds us of the vastness of life and the enduring bond we hold with those we've lost. If you’re navigating grief, remember that unique expressions of remembrance are powerful. Sharing your story or finding a symbolic gesture, like the night sky on an important date, can help you feel less alone and foster a lasting connection to your loved ones.



















