Women learn to put value on yourselves, be selfish. I don't care if you're married, single, cohabiting with a man, friends with benefits, in a situatioship/relationship or any kind of ship you're in. Learn to put your interest, well-being first, be SELFISH.
Women, since society has delegated you to second class citizens and made you believe that you're incomplete without a man therefore you want the men validation so bad, then do what these men have told you to do time and time again, which is to love yourself above any other especially when you're in romance with them.
Women are the sole enablers of badly behaved men. Be it their mothers, sisters, girlfriends, female acquaintances, cousins, relatives and any woman who's in proximity with any man no matter the connection. You enable them directly or indirectly whether you're conscious of it or not you do.
One thing I love men for is the ability to put themselves first no matter what especially in romantic relationships. Pay attention to the way men communicate and defend each other, their mindset etc.
women be Selfish
In today's complex social dynamics, women often face pressure to seek validation through romantic relationships, sometimes at the expense of their own well-being. Embracing self-love is not just a personal choice but a vital practice for survival and empowerment. It’s important for women to recognize the risks involved when placing others' needs above their own, especially in partnerships where loyalty and honesty are compromised. A poignant example is the story of a woman who survived breast cancer but later contracted AIDS from an unfaithful partner who concealed his HIV status. This tragic case highlights the crucial importance of protecting oneself through regular health screenings, open communication, and self-prioritization. Being 'selfish' in this context means setting boundaries, advocating for your health, and valuing your life above external validation. Women’s tendency to enable men's negative behaviors—whether consciously or not—can perpetuate harmful cycles. Reclaiming the ability to put oneself first challenges societal norms that have historically minimized women’s autonomy. Observing how men often prioritize themselves in relationships can serve as a lesson in advocating for equal self-respect and care. Practical strategies include regular health check-ups such as STD testing, honest conversations about relationship health, and building a strong support network that encourages independence and self-worth. It's vital to remember that self-love is not selfishness in a negative sense but a courageous and necessary step toward emotional and physical safety. Ultimately, prioritizing yourself enables healthier relationships and fosters resilience. Women who choose to love themselves fully not only protect their well-being but also set powerful examples for their communities and future generations.