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19th birthday dump!

🤍 My Story: Ok so boom I was planning on doing a lot of stuff with my military friends cause yk I’m away from home. In between the time of my birthday I got into it with the boy I was messing with my friends didn’t like him @ all (he did f’d up shii but that another story! anywho they kept bashing me about still messing with him so I started keeping my distance but when my bday came nobody was talking to me. Like I went to go get chipotle on my birthday and I seen my “friends” all leaving together. & one of em ain’t even tell my happy birthday. So now I’m just feeling alone & sad I took my self out got dolled up. Went shopping spend a good $2000 at the mall (retail therapy). The boy I was supposed to be standing on business with texted me I couldn’t help but text back I had not talk to anyone & he said he wanted to hang out with me & get a hotel for my bday ofc my fast ass went (this was on a Friday) 🤣. I needed to feel a void (shitty friends & a ain’t shii 🥷🏽) btfol. Btw as yall can see in the dump it was so good 🍆I took my hair down😭😭😭 So Saturday comes we leave & I book me my own hotel cause I did not wanna stay in them barracks😭😭😭 I asked him to come & he made up some excuse I don’t remember 😐 so I went to go get me some ihop cried a lil bit & slept my Saturday away. I wake up Sunday morning I see him on this girl I’m cool with finsta!! 12 followers so I request & he all in her comments. Mind you Friday i asked did he know her cause her TikTok popped up & he gone say oh I seen her around 🤨 so I send him a screenshot of him in her comments he gone say “yea Ian gone lie Ian shit”. Baby Ian never put on no church clothes on so fasttttt but babyyy I cried my eyes out that Sunday service. I was praying I can leave him alone 🤣 that sum up my birthday dump!! Full of shii atleast I was cute tho 🥹

I stopped talking to him for 3months now we talking again. I mentally checked out long time ago but I still love him 💕

For the friends they cut me off for talking to him 💀

#19thbday #birthdaydepression #dumpskiiii #storytime #fakefriend #🥷🏽aintshii

2024/9/21 Edited to

... Read moreTurning 19 can be a tumultuous time, filled with emotional highs and lows. It's not uncommon to feel a mix of joy and sadness as you reflect on friendships and romantic relationships. This birthday story highlights experiences many people can relate to—feeling abandoned by friends, navigating complicated love interests, and finding solace through self-care. Retail therapy, while often seen as a temporary fix, can be a way to treat yourself and regain a sense of control during difficult times. Spending on meaningful items, whether it's fashion or something to enhance your space, can boost your mood. However, it's crucial to recognize this should be balanced with genuine emotional healing. Friendships may shift as you grow older, and this can lead to feelings of loneliness when those you relied on suddenly seem distant. It's important to communicate your feelings and ensure your friendships are rooted in mutual respect and understanding. If friends cut ties over misunderstandings or relationships, one may question their true loyalty. Ultimately, birthdays serve as reminders not just of age, but of lessons learned and relationships valued. Embracing your emotions, whether it's joy or sorrow, helps in personal growth. Your 19th birthday may have had its challenges, but the experience fosters resilience and shapes your journey into adulthood.