Know ya worth🌷🌹🌷🌹

The dating pool has been kind of scary lately and honestly, I feel like I’m just a lot happier and I make a lot more money when I’m single lol.

Since going to therapy I’ve realized that I have to be okay with possibly not being with anyone. I have to love myself and give myself the things that I would want someone else to give me . I’m cool with that.

I’ve learn to look at the red flags and leave when the colors don’t change.

I’ve learn to love myself more than anything .

I’m not saying I don’t want love but I want the right love.

I want flowers

I wanna go on nice dates

I wanna cook for my future husband

I wanna pray with him

I wanna inspire him and be inspired

I want someone who will lead me !

I can have these things but I won’t get them holding onto things that serve me no purpose.

Love yourself ladies and go where the love is reciprocated ❤️

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2024/5/7 Edited to

... Read moreIt's truly empowering to realize that the most important relationship you'll ever have is with yourself. Like many of you, I've been on a journey to truly "know my worth," and it's been transformative. Before you can expect someone else to treat you with love and respect, you have to be able to give that to yourself. This isn't just about affirmations; it's about active self-care, building confidence, and understanding what truly makes you happy, whether you're single or in a relationship. Cultivating Your Inner Confidence (and Outer Glow!) For me, a big part of feeling good in my own skin comes from both internal work and external expression. It's like that tweet mentioned, "Getting dolled up is good for my mental health." Sometimes, putting on a fabulous outfit – maybe a chic patterned sheer top with a denim mini-skirt, paired with some dazzling gold strappy heels and a matching gold handbag – can instantly boost your mood. Taking that mirror selfie and genuinely feeling good about your look, owning the text "I LOVE (MY BODY)" that might pop up in a photo – that's a powerful act of self-love. It’s about celebrating your unique style and realizing that your confidence radiates from within, reflecting outward in your "seductive eyes" and "pretty face." It's not about seeking validation; it's about honoring yourself. Navigating the Dating Pool with Clear Vision When you truly love and value yourself, the dating pool feels less scary because your standards become non-negotiable. Learning to spot red flags isn't about being cynical; it's about protecting your peace and energy. It means recognizing when someone's actions don't align with their words, or when a situation consistently drains you rather than uplifts you. When those colors don't change, you know it's time to politely exit. This clarity only comes when you're deeply rooted in your own worth. Defining Your "Right Love" The article mentions wanting "the right love," and that resonates deeply. What does that look like for *you*? For some, it might be someone who brings flowers, plans thoughtful dates, or shares spiritual values. For others, it might be a partner who inspires them to be better and leads with kindness. It's crucial to get specific about these desires. Journaling about your ideal partner qualities, values, and even the kind of everyday life you envision can help manifest this. It shifts your focus from merely wanting *a* partner to attracting the right partner who truly complements your self-loved, empowered self. Embracing True Luxury: Freedom and Choice Being single on purpose isn't a fallback; it's a powerful choice. It ties into the idea that "True luxury is never stuff – it's the ability to do what you want, when you want." This means having the freedom to pursue your passions, invest in your personal growth, travel, and simply enjoy your own company without compromise. It’s about building a life so rich and fulfilling that a partner adds to it, rather than completes it. This independence ensures that when love does arrive, it's an enhancement, not a necessity born out of loneliness. Remember, you deserve a love that is reciprocated, respectful, and truly adds value to the incredible life you've already built for yourself.

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