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Perfectionism

Just make things, perfectionism will always be there but it’s unattainable to be perfect in art all the time!

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Perfectionism can be a significant barrier in the creative process, often leading artists to fear judgment or fail to start projects. Many believe they must produce 'perfect' work, but this mindset can stifle creativity and personal expression. Understanding that art is subjective and can be flawed encourages artists to explore more freely and authentically. It’s essential to remember that great art often arises from experimentation and mistakes. Instead of focusing solely on the end product, artists should celebrate the journey of making and learning. Putting aside the notion of perfection allows for more creative freedom, enabling individuals to develop their unique style and voice. Incorporating the idea of making art that one loves, regardless of perceived quality, can lead to greater fulfillment and innovation in one’s work. By accepting that not every piece must be a masterpiece, artists can cultivate a practice that is enjoyable and personally meaningful, encouraging them to 'make stuff even if it's bad.' This shift in perspective can lead to more profound artistic growth and confidence.

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