💔 My #BetrayalList

💔 My #BetrayalList — The Things That Let Me Down (or I Let Go Of 😅)

Because sometimes… it’s not them, it’s me 💅

Honest, funny, a little too real — here’s my personal list of betrayals 👇

1️⃣ Waking up at 5AM to “be that girl”

2️⃣ Weekly meal prep

3️⃣ My gym membership

4️⃣ The clean-girl aesthetic

5️⃣ Becoming a Pinterest mom

6️⃣ 10-step skincare routine

7️⃣ The “no-spend” month

8️⃣ Keeping my car clean

9️⃣ Journaling every night

🔟 Balancing it all perfectly

The #BetrayalList trend is too real 😂 From “waking up at 5AM” goals to the gym tag collecting dust — here’s my honest mom + lifestyle edition of things that just didn’t make it.

Sharing it for the girls who tried, laughed, and moved on

What’s on your betrayal list this year? 👇

#Lemon8Trend #RelatableMomMoments #LifestyleConfessions

2025/10/14 Edited to

... Read moreThe #BetrayalList trend truly resonates with many because it highlights our all-too-human struggles with keeping up lifestyle expectations. Waking up at 5AM to "be that girl" might seem empowering, but sometimes our bodies and busy schedules simply don’t cooperate, leading us to let go of these goals without guilt. Weekly meal prep, often praised for helping sanity and health, can become overwhelming amidst a hectic family life, especially for moms juggling multiple responsibilities. Similarly, a gym membership can start as a motivation booster yet ends up collecting dust as daily demands shift priorities. The clean-girl aesthetic and 10-step skincare routine are popular trends promising glow and wellness but might not fit everyone's routine or budget—sometimes simplicity wins. Becoming a Pinterest mom or striving for a "no-spend" month can reveal the tension between aspirational social media portrayals and real life realities. Keeping a car spotless or journaling every night are admirable, but they often take a backseat when time runs out. Balancing it all perfectly remains an ideal many chase but rarely meet, and that’s completely okay. Sharing your own betrayal list can be a liberating way to release pressure and embrace authentic living. It fosters community and laughter among those who’ve tried various habits and moved on without shame. Whether it’s fitness ambitions, beauty routines, budgeting challenges, or daily organization, the key is to find what works sustainably for you and celebrate progress, not perfection. If you’re inspired to reflect on what’s on your betrayal list this year, remember it’s normal to adjust goals and focus on self-compassion over comparison. Life is about growth and flexibility, and sometimes, letting go is the best way forward.

Related posts

My betrayal list
#grwm #betrayal #explore #grwm
The st☆r

The st☆r

191 likes

MY BETRAYAL LIST
🙃 #BetrayalList
Trin 🛼🌼🩷🪩✨

Trin 🛼🌼🩷🪩✨

34 likes

my betrayal list
heavy on the protein shakes
Kassie Brandon

Kassie Brandon

9 likes

My betrayal list
I have seen so many people doing these. So, I thought I’d do it with a little twist! Every one I have seen is so relatable and I am glad we aren’t alone!💕 If I am being real, I could probably add 50 more things to this list but for everyone’s sanity, let’s keep it short. 😅 Even though the tru
Chloe | sahm ♡

Chloe | sahm ♡

53 likes

my betrayal list…
#betrayallist #kanye #relatable #foryoupage #viral
ava marie 💌

ava marie 💌

25 likes

My betrayal list
ruthcontreras

ruthcontreras

41 likes

The image displays multiple positive pregnancy tests, including two Clearblue tests (one digital, one traditional) and two strip tests, indicating pregnancy. The text overlay reads 'My first trimester betrayal list ✨💖🤢'.
My betrayal list
Overall similar to my first pregnancy + a few extra things LOL
Brynnmariehair

Brynnmariehair

26 likes

My Betrayal List
#mybetrayallist
lemontless12

lemontless12

4 likes

My betrayal list
💋 #fyp #betrayallist #kaynewest #momlife #human
Tara Lynn

Tara Lynn

27 likes

My Betrayal List
☆Arri ☆ Press On Nail Artist ☆

☆Arri ☆ Press On Nail Artist ☆

3 likes

My Betrayal List
#betrayallist My list of betrayal, the list could go on and on for daysss!! 🫠🫠 #Lemon8 #relatable #list
💕💕

💕💕

3 likes

My Betrayal List
pls pls pls let this reach the target audience 🙌 #mybetrayallist #liberal #victoriasecretangel #list #embracevulnerability
🍂

🍂

7 likes

my betrayal list
#betrayallist #trending #Lemon8 #lemon8challenge #relatable
shelby

shelby

8 likes

A woman holds a baby in front of a pumpkin display, with the text 'MY BETRAYAL LIST FTM EDITION' at the top. Various orange, white, and green pumpkins are arranged around them, creating a fall-themed backdrop.
My Betrayal List
Safe to say I won’t be going into my next babies with expectations 🥲😂 Moms what’s on your list? #BetrayalList #ftm #sahm #boymom #mommyaffirmations
caymienbatty

caymienbatty

1 like

My betrayal list
#betrayallist
Kay Gaters

Kay Gaters

3 likes

My betrayal list
This list can go on & on. Multiple systems are broken y el Pueblo siempre está presente para salvar el pueblo. #betrayallist #latinatherapist #activist
Latinx Therapy

Latinx Therapy

4 likes

A smiling woman, likely a property manager, is featured with the title "My Betrayal List As a Property Manager" overlaid. The image sets the tone for a personal perspective on property management challenges.
My Betrayal List
#betrayallist #propertymanager #propertymanagement #corporategirly #officelifestyle I’m here to help you. Keep the property running and looking great. I am here for the residents!!! I am here to ensure you love every single moment while living in the community. No question is dumb, no c
Liz Johns

Liz Johns

3 likes

My betrayal list
#betrayallist
Janeliz

Janeliz

1 like

My Betrayal List
#betrayallist #mybetrayallist #lemon8contest #lemon8challenge #Lemon8Diary
kellyselks

kellyselks

5 likes

My BETRAYAL List
Have you been personally victimized by any of these. Which ones? #betrayal #betrayallist #kanyewest #list
Annie 🌸 Tirz | Beauty | life

Annie 🌸 Tirz | Beauty | life

3 likes

My Betrayal List?
I’m Normally Not A “Trend” Person but, Here Goes… LOL!! #betrayallist
CO | Dark Spots | Acne Scars

CO | Dark Spots | Acne Scars

7 likes

My Betrayal List
listen- I'm a bit of a hater but I kept it kind of concise and broad. however seriously fuck you McDonald's bring back all day breakfast and not mentioned but big fuck you to all of the doctors that treated me like shit (especially the one who kept prescribing antidepressants when my ge
Hannah🎀💛

Hannah🎀💛

2 likes

My betrayal list
Prednisone changes make me occasionally dyslexic and I was googling “who is kayne and why does he have a betrayal list” only to utterly shock myself that it was not Kayne, but in fact Kanye… which made it all make a lot more sense. Except the dyslexic moment. Still befuddled why this happens when I
Alexandra Wildeson

Alexandra Wildeson

1 like

A close-up selfie of a woman with long blonde hair, drinking from a cup with a straw. The text overlay reads "MY BETRAYAL LIST," and "lemon8 @marissawheelerliving" is in the bottom left corner.
My betrayal list
I do actually believe that Kanye has lost his mind but anyways here’s my betrayal list
Marissa Wheeler

Marissa Wheeler

5 likes

My betrayal list
My betrayal list is simple i think... you know when an outfit looks sooo cute online and you finally get it and it looks like you put a trashbag on with some designs on it? feels like complete betrayal. Another would be plants dying when you move! Last time I moved a few of my indoor plants d
Amela

Amela

1 like

My Betrayal List
Kanye inspired me to make my own betrayal list. Let’s just say this is just a starting point. #betrayal #teacherlife #lemon8teacher
Jamie Rice | SpEd Teacher

Jamie Rice | SpEd Teacher

7 likes

my betrayal list….
#kanyewest
Destiny

Destiny

6 likes

My Betrayal List
Should I give context on some of these? probably... BACKSTORY I have a tic disorder in my neck and shoulder. I *now* know its based in my spine/spinal cord. ER doctor was shortly before the tic disorder when I was in there for what was most likely early signs of the spine issues "If I cant
Sammie 🩵

Sammie 🩵

6 likes

My Betrayal List
1. Ik it’s stupid but like reallyyyy. Or when I had my giant spit gilt & they ask if she’s pregnant or they call her chunky/fluffy. Like be nice bro 2. I HATE county fair. There’s the fair Karen’s and the banner chasers that throw tantrums 3. I HATE when shows don’t include that I have to
🖤🪻Emma🪶🎱

🖤🪻Emma🪶🎱

2 likes

My betrayal list
#trend #fyp #foryoupage
Rachel Sarah

Rachel Sarah

0 likes

My Betrayal list
#betrayallist #godisgood #changestartsnow #godlovesyou
Alejandra

Alejandra

2 likes

A smiling blonde woman with text tattooed on her arm, which reads "Be Good - Have Fun - Grandma Karen." The image is captioned "My betrayal list as a college student."
Clover plants and grass grow between wooden planks. The image is captioned "Test questions where all answers are correct but you have to choose the best option Like why??".
A small, spotted piglet with a pink harness is being fed by a person's hand on a carpeted floor. The image is captioned "Having to spend my own money:(".
My betrayal list as a college student
Anyone else??? #christmaswishlist #betraylist #college #collegestudentmidlife #finalsweek
Chloe Quick

Chloe Quick

11 likes

“My Betrayal List Lessons & Growth"
I don’t look like what I’ve been through 💅 #BetrayalList #HealingEnergy
Floaty + Randbo

Floaty + Randbo

47 likes

My betrayal list
#dating #single #relationships #situationship
The Basic Blogger B*tch

The Basic Blogger B*tch

1 like

My Betrayal List
Every stylist has their betrayal list 😮‍💨💔 What would you add to yours? 👀 #hairstylist #salonlife #behindthechair #wildstrandsco #tampahair #tampahairstylist #tampaextensions
Wildstrands Mane

Wildstrands Mane

1 like

Kayne did it, so here’s my betrayal list
My take on this trend. Do we have the same? #kaynewestlist #kaynewest #betrayallist #list #notesapp
Cheyenne

Cheyenne

12 likes

My Betrayal List:Nursing School Edition
Make no mistakes, I am so grateful to be in my nursing program. I’m love it here, tears, fears and all. 💗🤍 #betrayallist #kanye #school #momlife #nursingschool
Eloisa

Eloisa

32 likes

My Betrayal List 🇸🇦📚
My betrayal list since I started learning Arabic… The list can go on and on if we’re being real. I’ve been seeing so many of these posts. They’re so relatable, so I wanted to make one of my own — Arabic edition 😅 I feel very strongly about my love for the Arabic language — but let’s just s
Lama Arabic Style

Lama Arabic Style

7 likes

My betrayal list
#betrayallist #lemon8challenge
Becca Jeremiah

Becca Jeremiah

1 like

My betrayal list…
I’ll share with my therapist but it’s giving, “hi, it’s me, I’m the problem it’s me” a la #taylorswift ✨ #tiktoktrend #trending
Drinks & Vogue

Drinks & Vogue

1 like

A woman with glasses and a pink sweatshirt takes a mirror selfie, smiling and resting her chin on her hand. Her hair is in a ponytail, and she has red nail polish.
My betrayal list as an RBT
#RBT #ABA #behaviortherapist #autismacceptance
Kristyn

Kristyn

16 likes

My Betrayal List
#ye #betrayal #list
GiaMia

GiaMia

3 likes

Comment your biggest betrayal below 👇🏻
#mybetrayallist #kanye #betrayal #relatable #fyp
Your Level Up HQ ✨

Your Level Up HQ ✨

13 likes

My Betrayal List
In honor of Kanye releasing his 😜
Jennifer 🫶🏼

Jennifer 🫶🏼

0 likes

My betrayal list
𝒯𝒶𝓃𝓎𝒶 💕🇨🇦

𝒯𝒶𝓃𝓎𝒶 💕🇨🇦

7 likes

my betrayal list
#embracevulnerability #unfiltered
Lindsey Nicole

Lindsey Nicole

21 likes

MY BETRAYAL LIST
Pls dont betray me 🙏🙏 #betrayallist #viral #trending #Lemon8Diary #lifestyle
HitTheNextLevel

HitTheNextLevel

1 like

My Betrayal List- Soccer Mom Edition
The moms who get it… get it. ⚽️😅 #theboujeebudgetmom
TheBoujeeBudgetMom|Tyffany

TheBoujeeBudgetMom|Tyffany

11 likes

My Betrayal List
#betrayallist 🫡
bea

bea

0 likes

My Betrayal List💔
My Betrayal list since Kanye dropped his… The list can go on and on if we’re being real. I’ve been seeing so many of these posts. They’re so relatable so I wanted to make one of my own. I feel very strongly about my love for animals - don’t get me started. 🐾 What’s on your betrayal lis
nicole :)

nicole :)

79 likes

my betrayal list
#gymtok #gymgirlies #fyp #betrayal #kaynewest
Becca

Becca

1 like

See more