and puts up w my attitude 😳

Working closely with tradespeople such as welders, linemen, and diesel mechanics, I've observed that their personalities often reflect the demanding nature of their professions. These roles require not only technical skill but also resilience and a strong work ethic, which can sometimes come across as tough or even abrasive on the surface. For example, a diesel mechanic with a 'cute smile but an asshole to everyone but you' perfectly captures the dual nature of many in these jobs—professional, focused, and perhaps blunt or reserved with strangers, but genuine and caring in close relationships. Learning to navigate these dynamics with patience and understanding can lead to stronger connections and deeper respect both at work and in personal life. I've also noticed that attitude plays a huge role in how tradespeople are perceived and how they maintain their mental well-being. Those who put up with a loved one’s attitude, especially if it’s challenging, often do so out of mutual respect and appreciation for hard work and dedication. Embracing these personalities with empathy rather than judgment creates a more supportive environment. Ultimately, understanding the complexity behind these attitudes helps bridge gaps between different social circles and builds a better appreciation of the individuals behind the skills. Whether it's a welder, an equipment operator, or a laborer, recognizing these nuances has enriched my interactions and made me value the culture and character that define these trades.