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How to deal with the feeling of failure in life?

The hardest part of our lives from childhood to 32 years old is the hardest part of our new graduation work.

⛈️ what you find is ⛈️

1. At home is difficult to send us to study with a lot of expectation that the end of the job will definitely have money to pay the debt to help send younger students to study.

2. Graduated from a field that I didn't like (knowing that I didn't like it). I didn't want to work on the line I learned. I tried it but I couldn't. I didn't want to be like this.

3. Apply for a lot of jobs, interview to many places, travel, run out of paperwork, a lot of photos, do like that until discouraged. The longer you get, the more you are not confident in yourself that it is good enough. Lane is not chosen.

5. After getting a job on the line, it doesn't work. Try to change the line of work, it is difficult to find a job again, or the salary is less. Finally, decide to quit without telling anyone, then confess to your parents and then come home to teach at home, ask why when you graduate to work in this branch, do not encounter pressure questions from the inside feeling that you feel that you have failed already. Not satisfied already. The hardest is from your family, do not understand again.

6. Everyone around keeps talking about work all the time. Anyone who comes home keeps asking. Go anywhere. Ask the provincial society. Anyone who comes home must be strong. Even if people ask the life of the mineral, they will be hard to care about other people anyway. And most importantly, our parents care about the villagers as well.

7. When crying alone very often, the heart is broken, the brain is really broken, the brain is stubborn for a while, sad, the feeling of failure, self-failure, the most disappointed in yourself, do not want to see anyone, sometimes irritated, easily angry if anyone comes to talk about work.

8. During the work you do in the neighborhood, earn enough for yourself. At home, please help to send you to study and where to save money to find opportunities for your life.

Finally, I spent about three, four years there, trying to find a way out every last day, and we got through it. Today, life is good, everything is smooth.

🌈 what made it through that life was ☔️

1. Be patient with the insult and the person who likes to ask and the person who likes to make suggestions to do it. Take the civil service exam. Try to do that. This one, the talk is gone. Just say, leave the words for our parents to pressure us. And he said and forgot.

2. Confide yourself that our lives are ours. A bad life now is not the judge of the rest of life.

3. Compliment yourself as good, even deep down, may not feel that good about yourself.

4. Be confident that if we think and are confident that we can get ourselves to a better place, we must do it.

5. Accept the situation in front of you. Accept your bad feelings. Ugh, come in and tell yourself that it will get better.

6. No one knows as well as us what we will do, what we plan in our head, and there is no need to explain a lot. If he chooses not to believe in us, how to speak to death, he does not believe. And even if anyone says, if we are sure that we can do it, it must be done.

7. Whenever you can choose, hurry to get yourself out of a bad environment with our mental health. Or if you can choose it first, come out.

8. Some things take time to endure, accumulate success little by little to get through.

9. Having someone understand the support is very good, it is best. Only one person is good, but if it does not have, we must be strong. Believe that it can pass. Do not yearn for understanding from others. Finally, the person who can take us through things is only us.

10. Remember the feeling now. Remind yourself that we are very good.

Learn and don't bring yourself back to this point.

Finally, encourage everyone who is going through difficult things in life, no matter what the matter. Please pass and find a bright day soon. 🌈

# Coping with disappointment # Heal my heart # Moufon # Share experience

2025/8/18 Edited to

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