Losing someone dear like 'papi' is an incredibly difficult experience that stays with us for a lifetime. I vividly recall how, two years ago, I made a special effort to honor my papi’s memory, which became a crucial step in my healing process. Grief is not linear; it comes in waves—sometimes overwhelming, yet sometimes gently reminding us of love and cherished moments. In my experience, commemorating those we've lost allowed me to hold on to the joy and light they brought into my life rather than just the sorrow of their absence. Simple acts like revisiting meaningful places, sharing stories with family, or even quiet moments of reflection helped me stay connected to my papi’s spirit. For anyone going through a similar situation, I encourage you to find your own way to remember your loved one. It could be through writing a letter, creating a photo album, or carrying out traditions they cherished. These personal rituals not only honor their memory but also provide comfort during tough times. Remember, grief is deeply personal and unique. Seek support when needed, whether from friends, support groups, or professional counselors. Sharing your feelings can lighten the load and remind you that you are not alone. Above all, cherish the love you shared and allow yourself time to heal. Though the pain of missing 'papi' remains, the lasting impact of his presence continues to shape who I am. Holding onto hope and gratitude has been my guiding light through this journey of loss and remembrance.