What do you hide about your body?

For as long as I can remember my hip/torso and mid section have been my biggest insecurity. For the longest time I’ve found comfort in wearing either high-rise or high-waisted bottoms OR baggy/long tops that come down further. I actually don’t even own any low-rise bottoms or tight tops (crop tops).

When I was younger I felt this insecurity needed to be hidden because I was very skinny and my hip bones would stick out so much. I used high rise pants to hide that. And as I got older my hip and thigh bones grew wider/bigger, making them protrude even more. I continue to rely on high waisted/ high rise bottoms to hide my insecurity. Is this healthy? No. Does this need to be address? Absolutely. Eventually…

Do you hide any of your insecurities?

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2025/9/10 Edited to

... Read moreMany people face insecurities about their bodies, especially when it comes to areas like the hips, torso, and midsection. It’s common to hide these insecurities by choosing clothing styles that provide comfort and coverage, such as high-rise or high-waisted bottoms and loose tops. These choices can create a sense of safety and confidence in daily life. However, over time, addressing these insecurities directly can lead to greater self-love and empowerment. One effective way to begin overcoming such feelings is through physical activity focused on building muscle strength, particularly in the core and abdominal areas. Strengthening these muscles can improve posture and body shape, which may reduce concerns about bone prominence or uneven contours. At-home workouts are a convenient method to start this process, helping people feel stronger and more connected with their bodies without the pressure of a gym environment. Interestingly, experimenting with different clothing styles, like low-rise swimsuits, can also be a positive step towards confidence. For some, swimsuits feel less restrictive and allow for expression without the usual insecurities tied to daily wear. This exploration can be a gentle way to challenge self-perceptions and reflect on personal comfort levels with body image. In addition to physical steps, incorporating positive affirmations and self-compassion into daily routines supports mental well-being. Accepting and celebrating one’s body in all forms encourages healthier relationships with appearance and style choices. It is important to remember that comfort in fashion is vital, and embracing what feels good can be empowering. High-rise clothing can offer comfort while also being a fashion statement, allowing people to feel confident and stylish even as they work through insecurities. In conclusion, hiding body insecurities is a personal journey. Combining fitness, fashion experimentation, and positive mindset practices can help individuals transition from hiding to owning their bodies gracefully. Everyone’s path is unique, but small steps like choosing high-waisted pieces for comfort or trying new styles can ignite lasting confidence and self-acceptance.

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Melissa.Feekin

I’m the exact same. I haven’t worn low rise pants in forever. It’s not that I’m trying to hide my body, but that I dislike them greatly. I don’t like how they fit, they slide down, and I don’t enjoy the look. High rise/ high waisted pants are my go to. I think they suit my body a lot more. I used to wear crop tops all the time. Now I only wear them if they are longer cropped. As a mom, I’m no longer a fan of them being ultra short. I do mainly wear form fitting clothing. I feel like when it comes to body image, I have the opposite problem of most people. I feel best when I look in the mirror and I can see figure. Wearing baggy clothing makes me feel like a shapeless blob. It’s probably because of how long and hard I’ve worked on my body to get to where I am. It’s not that I want others looking, but that I want to see what I accomplished.

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Loretta PetrovCreator

I’m glad to see I’m not the only one who doesn’t like low-rise bottoms. And thank you for this genuine comment. You put a different perspective on the topic and I feel much better about it in general now! I’m so proud of you mama!! You are so beautiful and you own it! That’s awesome!! 🔥🙌🏼😊

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