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Keep your Standards HIGH✨
#confidentgoddess #girladvice
Jay?Duhhh

Jay?Duhhh

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Be ready to keep your standards high
Tell him what you need from the jump. If he’s not onboard, you know where you stand . #stephanspeaks #relationship #relationshipadvice #Lemon8
Stephan Speaks

Stephan Speaks

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Keep your standards high 💋
A•D•D•I•E

A•D•D•I•E

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YOUR STANDARDS ARE TO HIGH!
Your standards are never to high!! If people think they are to high then they can go find someone who has lower standards but don’t settle. #Lemon8Diary #shareyourthoughts #love #advice
Mary R

Mary R

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Always Keep Your Standards High ! 🫶
Chapman & Kirby #fashionfinds #travelwithme2024 #Beauty #HighClass #Chi #Houston
DeAsia B

DeAsia B

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Keep your standards high
She’s not for everyone.. and that’s the point. Who else moves like this? #highstandards #levelup #feelingyourbest #selflove
Aylah🧡

Aylah🧡

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15 HARD TRUTHS: LOWERING YOUR STANDARDS IS THE FASTEST WAY TO ATTRACT THE WRONG
Most people don’t end up in the wrong situations overnight… They slowly adjust. They tolerate. They justify. And before they realize it… what they once said “never” to becomes their normal. The truth is — Lowering your standards doesn’t make love easier… it just makes the wrong peo
Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

Aisha .T Cleaners & J Advocate

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Keep your standards high & Squats down low….🌴💪🏽🔥
Be sure to use my discount code “jmadoxsantini” for 30% off of www.Bonafide.us/jmadoxsantini and check out their incredible new releases that will blow your mind away‼️🔥 What’s on the agenda for today my Fit Fam⁉️❤️ #wardrobeessentials #squats #springreset #lemon8diary #lemon8d
SantinaRoc82393

SantinaRoc82393

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Keep your standards high🚨
Keep your standards high and your mindset steady. You don’t have to settle for less than what you know you deserve. Stay disciplined, stay focused, and continue building a life that matches your values. Standards shape your direction. Discipline turns goals into reality. Like and sh
PositivelyGoodV

PositivelyGoodV

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don't lower your standards
sorry had to replace song the original song is plies you ain't regular
🎀Didi Desir🎀

🎀Didi Desir🎀

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A hand holds a bouquet of yellow roses with baby's breath, set against a dark background. Overlay text reads 'MY STANDARDS FOR DATING,' introducing the article's theme.
A sunset sky with silhouetted trees and buildings forms the background for text detailing communication standards: open, honest, and check-ins without constant texting.
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MY STANDARDS FOR DATING
my standards for dating!! the dating scene in your twenties + in college is a bit tough, and for someone who is - i'll be honest - quite picky, it feels impossible i've done a lot of self reflection, talks in therapy, and also just trial and error in the dating scene, trying to figure o
sophia carter ✰

sophia carter ✰

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HOW TO RAISE YOUR STANDARDS 🔑✨🌸
LOOK INWARD: Dig deep be honest and real don’t give cute answers be real so you can make the necessary changes within yourself to be better. WHO ARE YOU: Begin to view yourself as THAT woman and live life that way daily. She is YOU, just begin to treat yourself and be that. Look into what she ne
Maraya J 🥂

Maraya J 🥂

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How to Reprogram Your Standards
#reprogrammingyoursubconscious #mindset #reality #selfimprovement #Lemon8
Sarah

Sarah

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Setting dating standards in your 20s and beyond ✨
Communicate boldly, love independently, and never settle for less than respect and equality. Remember, it’s not just about finding the right one, it’s about being the right one for yourself first. YOU MATTER first. 💗 #thinklikeaman #dating #datingadvice #datingadvice101 #relationshipad
Hillary

Hillary

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Your Standards Write Your Future:
Your life will always rise or fall to the level of the standards you set. The relationships you attract, the opportunities you accept, and even the way you treat yourself are all direct reflections of what you've decided you're worthy of. Low standards create a cycle of settling. They ke
Sarah

Sarah

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Keep your standards high and your excuses low🚨
Keep your standards high and your excuses low. Growth demands accountability. When you expect more from yourself, you naturally rise to meet it. Standards shape outcomes. Accountability accelerates progress. Like and share to remind someone else: discipline defines direction. #D
PositivelyGoodV

PositivelyGoodV

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“Your standards are too high”
Colossians 3:19, 1chorinthians 7:3, Genesis 2:24, 1Peter 3:8, proverbs 20:6-7, Ephesians 5:25, Genesis 29:20 #godlyrelationships #godwilling #godlyhusband #godlycouples #godgoals
Ehaken_09

Ehaken_09

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Mindset shifts that strengthen your standards
Your standards rise the moment you stop accepting what your nervous system calls familiar and start choosing what actually supports your growth. When you create a new baseline through better decisions and better environments your brain adjusts. High effort becomes normal. Low effort feels uncomfort
Luxury Mindset CEO

Luxury Mindset CEO

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My relationship standards
I figured I would shoot my shot on here, these are my standards because I am a Christian and we are called to have high standards. We are to stand apart from the world, not to be with it. #godlyrelationships #chirstianity #christian #relationship
Jack H

Jack H

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HOW TO HOLD YOURSELF TO HIGH STANDARDS AND THRIVE
One of the best ways to hold yourself to high standards is to figure out what you're okay with and what you're not. Once you know that, put yourself first and learn how to say no. If you don’t set boundaries, people might take advantage of you. Always make sure you want the best for yoursel
Zazel Rosado

Zazel Rosado

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Never lower your standards just to keep someone.
Peace and self respect are always better than begging for the bare minimum. ✨ Follow for daily real talk 💛
nataliataigra

nataliataigra

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Keep your squats low and your standards High
"Be your own inspiration." “Believe you can and you're halfway there.” – ... "Remember why you started." "Believe in yourself and anything is possible." “I found I was more confident when I stopped being someone else's definition of beautiful and started being my
Kailah🌒

Kailah🌒

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MY DATING STANDARDS 🫶
dating can feel hard when nobody seems to meet your standards, but you don’t want to lower them (who can relate? 😩) honestly, i think most of these are the bare minimum. modern dating especially feels like THE WORST sometimes, when guys have 0 commitment 💀 these are a few standards i refuse
clarissa ♥

clarissa ♥

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RELENTLESS STANDARDS!!!
RELENTLESS STANDARDS!!! He puts the gloves on and you think he’s about to throw weight around. Nope. He pulls out the shoulder rolls. 50 backward. 50 forward. If you feel it at 25, good, that means it’s working. This is the stuff people overlook. The simple rules. The unsexy work. Stretchin
Influence.

Influence.

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keep your heels 👠 high and keep your standards rig
yes it can be possible keep it 💯 positive 🌹
Dina Rowe

Dina Rowe

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essays on toxic diet culture and beauty standards
“Dead Weight" by Emmeline Clein is a collection of essays examining toxic beauty culture and Western beauty standard Each essay delves into how films such as "Jennifer's Body" and social media platforms like Tumblr have contributed to the reinforcement of negative beauty standard
BATE by Rana

BATE by Rana

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standards for a healthy relationship 🫶🏽
1. They know how to say sorry and mean it 2. And they don't hold on to grudges 3. They don't make assumptions about their partner's feelings - they ask 4. They make time for physical affection 5. They stand together and refuse to let outsiders call the shots 6. They don't play
jenna ౨ৎ

jenna ౨ৎ

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Keep your squats low and your standards high
Keep your squats low and your standards high #squatvariations #thickfitness #squatlife #thickgirlfitness #summerbod
Tam Watts

Tam Watts

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Do I really need to lower my standards?
The other day I was catching up with a guy friend talking about life, relationships, and just vibing. Out of nowhere, he says: “You’re a good girl. You’re beautiful, independent, hardworking, fun to be around everything a man wants in a wife. But I think you need to lower your standards. Your mind
Dadoulovebeauty509

Dadoulovebeauty509

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High Standards Only
Some salons follow trends. High-level salons set them. When your standards rise, everything changes — the talent, the clients, the results. The beauty industry is upgrading. Are you part of it? #2026NailReset #LuxuryNails #SalonLife #BeautyIndustry #NailInspo
SALONOVATE

SALONOVATE

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High Dating Standards 101 ✨
📌Save This Post For Later📌 & Follow @DrewAdoreNaja🌸 Okay Ladies…time for a lil chit chat! Many Women feel like they don’t deserve the love they crave and often settle but I’m here to tell you sis! What one won’t do another one will ! 💯 The First Step is Self-Love♥️✨ Once you mas
The Formulation 🐐

The Formulation 🐐

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BE SERIOUS ABOUT YOUR STANDARDS
#sheraseven
sprinklesprinkle

sprinklesprinkle

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can’t lower my standards
#viral #foryou #charlylandry #fyp #relateable #itgiritips #modeling #Lemon8Diary #girlboss #slay
♡︎

♡︎

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beauty standards dont make sense🤦🏽‍♀️
im a black girl with a bogger body and it just doesnt make sense to me why people that i dream to look like get made fun of for no reason. you have to remember that no one is perfect and if you are someone who body shames or appearance shames, then i honestly wish you well in life but wasting your
୨୧⋆。˚ ⋆

୨୧⋆。˚ ⋆

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Thing my bf did to raise my standards 💗
#boyfriend #couple #relationship #fyp #foryou
Linayah Aquino

Linayah Aquino

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this goes against community standards?
how? common sense is being squelched on tictoc and lemon 8. keep up the dumbfuckery and no one is going to miss you.
swampsquatch

swampsquatch

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Standards You Can Taste 💎
Standards don’t just show in how she lives… they show in what she creates. Care. Precision. Intention. That’s how luxury is built, one detail at a time. 💎 Learn how she built this lifestyle link in bio. #RichGirlLiving #LuxuryHabits #SoftLifeStandards #FeminineEnergy #BOSS
Rich Girl Living

Rich Girl Living

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Time to update the beauty standards!
I used to feel so self-conscious about my back rolls and tummy rolls—especially when I moved, stretched, or bent down. I’d see them in the mirror and feel embarrassed, thinking, *‘Is everyone noticing this?*’ I realized the only reason I developed this insecurity was from scrolling through perf
Bianca Carbone

Bianca Carbone

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Never lower your standards 🚩
I keep hearing people say “just lower your standards” when it comes to dating… but honestly, that’s the worst advice ever. Why should anyone settle? Having high standards doesn’t make you picky, it means you know what you want. Anyone can be “nice” but do they actually make you happy? Are you at
Olivia🙈

Olivia🙈

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RELENTLESS STANDARDS.
Standing on standards means you move because it’s who you are, not because you feel inspired. Motivation fades, moods change, and circumstances shift,but standards remain fixed. When your actions are governed by standards, there is no debate, no negotiation, no waiting for the “right” feeling. You
Influence.

Influence.

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standards
#relationship #standardsmatter #standardshigh #standards #embracevulnerability
harley einstein

harley einstein

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Your “High” Standards Are Valid
Hello #GloUppers A theme I have been faced with a lot this week is balancing the opinions of others and my own sense of a self value. Lots of voices coming from different directions about what I should do and how I should consider settling in an effort to ply things safe. Never let anyone
Darrel Kennedy

Darrel Kennedy

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What High Standards Actually Look Like
Kensington Sailor

Kensington Sailor

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A couple kisses on a beach under a cloudy sky. Overlaid text discusses the expectation of a partner being the sole source of happiness, emphasizing the importance of cultivating personal joy and self-happiness.
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Unrealistic standards you may have to let go of…
Hello friends! 🍋 Have you ever thought about if your expectations of a man/woman in a relationship are too low or too high? We definitely need standards and expectations in our relationships in order to make it work, but sometimes our expectations are unrealistic it hurts us. That’s why
thamysenem

thamysenem

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Books That Made My Standards for Love Higher📚❤️
These are all 5 star reads for me as well!! What books have made your standards higher?!🦋❤️📚 🤠Reckless by Elsie Silver 💛God of Fury by Rina Kent 🌇Windy City Series by Liz Tomforde 👑Red White & Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston 🩵Out on a Limb by Hannah Bonam-Young 🐉Fourth Wing by Rebecca
kait

kait

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RELATIONSHIP STANDARDS TO MEET YOUR SOULMATE
hey cuties! i’ve been dating the loml for the past 3 years and plan on getting married in another! we met on tinder in the midst of covid, and i thought id give yall some insight as to what qualities I looked for that helped me find the person I want to spend my life with :) hope yall enjoy! #t
Eli

Eli

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Why you need to have high standards
Remember the difference between high standards and bare minimum. Loyalty, respect, and kindness are bare minimum. Your partner shouldn’t make you feel worse about yourself. ❤️ #lovestory #lemon8challenge #love #relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals #dating #advice #letschat
Cammie

Cammie

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Do you have standards? 💭
#Lemon8Diary #embracevulnerability #shareyourthoughts
TheHeartMindset

TheHeartMindset

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Stay loyal to your standards & gatekeep your peace
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Sharlene Jackson

Sharlene Jackson

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