Getting bullied for chasing my dream will always be my biggest motivation. From personal experience, facing negativity while pursuing a passion like becoming an idol is incredibly challenging, but it can also fuel your drive to succeed. I found that immersing myself in the vibrant world of J-pop and idol culture not only helped me build confidence but also connected me with a supportive community sharing similar interests in cosplay, dance, and kawaii aesthetics. One important lesson I learned is the power of self-expression through performance. Whether it’s through singing, dancing, or embodying a character in cosplay, the idol journey offers a creative outlet that can heal emotional wounds caused by bullying. It’s a reminder that no negative comments can define your worth or dreams. Additionally, getting involved in online communities and attending events like Connecticon helps to foster friendships and networks that affirm your identity. I highly recommend seeking out spaces where you can celebrate your passions openly, such as sharing your love for idols like Aquors or subcultures like Lolita and coquette styles. Embracing these interests allowed me to transform pain into purpose. If you feel disheartened by criticism, remember that every negative remark can be transformed into motivation to push harder. Keep chasing your dreams with kindness toward yourself, because becoming an idol saved me—and it can be a source of strength for you too.