If He Wanted To He Would

Yes this is lengthy but I believe it is worth the read so please bear with me 🥹🩷! Let me start off by giving a disclaimer. Please be safe out here!!! Yes, it worked out for me, but I would caution anyone when it comes to traveling alone to meet someone you don’t know.

I met my man on TikTok live. He is a big comedic content creator. I didn’t really know him at the time and I very rarely watched lives. He was talking to his followers on live and said he was single and his DM’s were open. I didn’t think much of it, but I figured why not. I accepted his offer to hop in the DM ☺️😂! He hopped in my DM and from there we were INSEPARABLE.

We started talking every single day and he would send me money to get my nails done on my maintenance and selfcare days. We talked about life, our favorite shows, the future, what we wanted out of life, kids etc. we talked for about two months and then it was official. We were in a relationship before we even saw each other in person.

I ended up losing my job unexpectedly and by that week a flight was booked to Florida to see him. I was so nervous. I only knew what he told me about him. I didn’t book a hotel or anything! We agreed that I would stay with him, but the crazy thing about it is, I never in my mind thought that something could go wrong. Everything felt so right! My flight from Texas to Florida was about two hours. When I tell y’all I was constantly checking my hair, thinking about what I wanted to say, doing breathing exercises to calm my anxiety, and everything else the entire 2 hours 😭😂!!!

I checked myself one last time when I got off of my flight. I called him, said I was ready and he was already at the airport waiting on me. When he got out of the car, he looked exactly like I expected. Obviously we FaceTime every day, but it’s so weird to actually see them in person. we immediately KISSED 😭🩷! The entire ride home was so nerve-wrecking because we both were nervous!

He planned out the perfect weekend getaway! What’s so funny is our first date was meeting two of his friends. We went out to brunch with them and had a great time. He knows that I love water and he planned a full day at the beach. He also knew that I loved art museums and took me to one the first day I was there. I never told him what I wanted to do. He just planned and executed the entire thing. I NEVER had to lift a finger 🥹🩷! On our first dinner date, he took me to this beautiful Italian restaurant in Tampa, Florida. What’s even funnier is that I met his dad and brother on the first in person meeting too!! Everything felt so natural.

He made me feel so welcomed and loved! I didn’t have to pay for anything and he let me eat as much as I wanted! For months, I struggled with eating because of stress! and the moment I spent time with him, it was like a sign from God telling me I was safe. When I tell you, I went to town on FOOD 😂🩷! I ate way too much, but he didn’t care! He was so happy to see me eat! We cuddled, we laughed, and on Sunday we went to church with his dad! Everything was just perfect!

Yes, what I did can be dangerous, but I genuinely followed my heart. Nothing has changed since that day over a year ago but our love getting stronger! He still to this day send me flowers every time he comes to visit, gets my nails done biweekly, he is there emotionally and he is always so supportive. We communicate so perfectly even in disagreement. He makes sure I’m up at 5:15AM on the DOT every single morning 😂🩷!

I was recently in a really bad car accident and he flew in less than 12 hours to take care of me 🥹. From driving me around the city, helping me find another car, dealing with insurance, grocery shopping, EVERYTHING! He makes sure to fill my fridge and my gas tank EVERY single time before he heads back home! We have our prayer nights every night and I feel like our relationship has strengthen our relationship with God! I feel so blessed. If he REALLY wanted to, HE WOULD!!! #lemon8challenge #date