3 alarm...That says you should step back.

1. Already there...Feel "uncomfortable."

Love must be a safe space, dear, not a place that makes you cry alone, paranoid, or awkward to say nothing. If you think about this relationship and there is a heavy feeling in your chest, that is a heartfelt warning that this may no longer be a safe home for you.

2. Must keep guessing...

Good relationships shouldn't make you feel like you have to play mind games all the time. "What does he think of us?"

"What state are we in?" Or

"Will he still be here tomorrow?"

The fact that you have to wait and question repeatedly on one side until you are exhausted is too tired. Good people love well, they will not let you stand in the middle of ambiguity.

3. Feel "not enough..."

Beginning to lose value in ourselves, ask if having this person makes us worse-looking, self-cutting, or have to pursue a piece of love from him?

If you are with him and you feel that you are not good enough or have to try to lose your happiness, I want you to turn around and hug yourself tightly and remember that you are good enough and always worthy of full love.

I wanted to say, "It's not because you're weak, you're smart, it means you're strong enough to choose happiness and protect your heart. It's okay to start counting again. You're here and you're convinced you'll get through it beautifully." 🤍✨

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