꧁༒Sa̶d̶B∆Y༒꧂

1121 followers

Follow

Follow

Follow

1/2

10 saved

40

6

She’ll let you break your back for years, working

She’ll let you break your back for years, working doubles and sacrificing sleep — but hypergamy don’t clap for sacrifice. 💔

The moment she thinks she’s leveled up, she’ll trade you in for someone ‘better.’ 🚫🥀

Fellas… would you still grind for her knowing your reward might be replacement?” #familycircleshow #BasedOnTrueStories #facebookfacts

2025/9/22 Edited to

6 comments

She was just using him that’s what she did

It happens to women too. We just need to study people better so we don't fall victim again.

Related posts

A woman in a car, wearing large pink sunglasses and a pink textured top, with the overlay text "HOW TO COMPLETELY REBRAND & GLOW UP 2026" and a blue butterfly emoji. A Lemon8 watermark is visible at the bottom left.

A white page with black text titled "Step 1: Ask God Who You're Becoming," detailing how to seek clarity from God for personal transformation, including a Bible verse from Romans 12:2. A Lemon8 watermark is at the bottom left.

A white page with black text titled "Step 2: Let Go of What God Is Asking You to Release," explaining the importance of releasing old habits and mindsets for rebranding, with a Bible verse from Isaiah 43:18-19. A Lemon8 watermark is at the bottom left.

The past 2 years tested me, but didn’t break me🔒

Good. Bad. Indifferent. But always growing 🌿 I’m walking into 2026 with faith, love, and gratitude 🤍 Lost my grandma the day after my birthday 💔 I’m claiming 2026 as our year of peace, love & blessings — for me, my husband & everyone around us ✨ #vlogmas #christiantiktok #20

2855 likes

Building the Habit of Working Out

I was never someone who stayed consistent with working out...I'd be really good for a week -maybe two and then fall off and it could take a month for me to get back into it or even longer BUILDING THE HABIT * make it obvious * make it attractive * make it easy * make it satisfyi

4934 likes

How to talk To your child 0-2 years

Talking to your child from 0-2 years old is crucial for their development. Let’s break down different ways you can interact and talk with your little one. Touch is an essential way to communicate with your baby, providing comfort and security. Gentle touches, like holding or cuddling, can help

452 likes

A picnic scene with a phone displaying screen time data, showing a last week's average of 11h 23m and categories like Social, Creativity, Travel, totaling 79h 47m. The Opal app icon is overlaid.

An App Store listing for the free Opal app, showing 4.7 stars from 28K ratings, categorized under Productivity. It highlights features like focus sessions and mentions a new Coach feature rollout.

Three phone screens illustrate Opal's blocking capabilities, session scheduling (Work Hours, Sleep), and real-time focus insights, including a message about Instagram being temporarily out of reach.

Best Focus App for Working, Studying & ADHD 🧠

Yeah, you read that right. My screen time is almost 12 HOURS A DAY 😭😭 it doesn’t help that my job involves social media because I’m always on my phone, but that’s why I’ve always sought out a good focus tool that’ll actually work (& not just act as a timer). I downloaded this free app, Opal,

29 likes

I Took a Break From Social Media and Here’s What I Learned

I quietly stepped away from social media for a couple of weeks. Not because I stopped loving creating. Not because I ran out of ideas. Not because I was giving up. I stepped away because I needed to recharge my battery. I love posting. I love educating. I love sharing things that might

299 likes

Let’s break it down using the Back Extension

Did you know the angle of your back during an exercise can completely change which muscles you’re targeting? 💡 💪 Adjust your position, change the focus: 🔹 Hips tilted back? You’ll activate your glutes and hamstrings—perfect for lower-body strength. 🔹 More upright spine? Now you’re hitting th

13 likes

A working mom studies at her laptop with a child in the background, illustrating the "Top 5 Tips for Going to School as a Full-Time Working Mom." Motivational text and notebooks are visible.

A working mom studies at a desk, illustrating "Tip 1: Schedule Your Study Time Like an Appointment." A detailed daily schedule and motivational notes are displayed.

A working mom studies at a table with a child in the background, illustrating "Tip 2: Stop Waiting for 'Perfect' Study Conditions." Tips for studying in small pockets of time are shown.

Top 5 Tips for Going to School as a Full-Time Working Mom

Being a full-time working mom while going to school is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. There were days I studied during lunch breaks, after bedtime routines, and while reheating coffee for the third time. You do not need a perfect routine. You need systems, consistency, and grace f

9 likes

Why did I take such a long break from art?

For years now I’ve been so focused on finding “my art style” and being original that I lost sight of how lovely it is to paint something that simply makes you happy. I found a photo on Pinterest and felt inspired to recreate it. I’m very happy with how it came out! I love this medium, it rem

3125 likes

Lost some gains but we are back💪🏼

My fitness journey started when I was 16 years old. I used to hate my body because I had such a hard time gaining weight. I hated when people called me “skinny” or when they would comment if I was eating enough. I started to consistently workout, build muscle to gain weight and also age played a fa

9 likes

Understanding IRAs. Tax Break Now vs. Tax-Free Later

Deciding between a Traditional and a Roth IRA usually comes down to one question: When do you want to pay the IRS? 💸 If you’re just starting your financial literacy journey, these accounts can feel like alphabet soup, but the concept is actually pretty simple once you break it down. 🏦 Tradition

16 likes

✨Never in a million years did I think…✨

I’d be the founder of something like this...But God knew. And He chose me. 🙌🏾Bible, Baddies & Boundaries is more than a brand, it’s a movement. It’s a sanctuary for women who love God but refuse to shrink, dim, or hide their truth. It’s for the ones who’ve been carrying the weight of the

1610 likes

10 Years Working in Music

First post on Lemon8 — testing the app. Feeling it out 💫 #gettoknowme #musicindustry #musicindustryjobs

7 likes

5 tips to help you get over a break up

This is my second time healing from a breakup. Each time will be different but the way to help you can usually stay the same. these tips have always helped me. #breakup #breakupglowup #breakupjourney #healing #selfcare #breakuprecovery #healthylifestyle2024

64 likes

LET'S TALK SELF CARE🫧🍵🧚‍♀️

Self care is something I have carefully implemented throughout this year and have really prioritized. This doesn't always mean face masks and bubble baths (although some of that does go a long way for me!) There are so many forms of self care. Here are some of my favorites (come back to see p

1440 likes

pre new years working out continues...

took a break for New Years Day but back at it tomorrow. #Unapologetically aja🦋

0 likes

✨🗓️ When Did You Start Working? 🤑✨

✨ I still remember mine like it was yesterday 🥹 I got my very first job at 18 years old, working at The Boys & Girls Club. It wasn’t glamorous, but it taught me SO much early on, like responsibility, patience, communication, and how to work with kids from all different backgrounds. Looking back

41 likes

A young woman with red and black braids, wearing glasses and a blue Rust College face mask, holds signs indicating 'Freshman Year' and '4 years of college' with an arrow.

A young woman takes a mirror selfie in a bathroom, wearing a light blue face mask, a striped crop top, and blue jeans.

A young woman takes a mirror selfie, wearing a black t-shirt, light pants, and red sneakers, with text 'RUST COLLEGE Holly Springs, MS' overlaid.

4 YEARS ⬇️ THE DRAIN 🥺💔??

LONG POST ALERT BUT PLS BARE WITH ME. I really didn’t think I would graduate from my HBCU, let alone on time. I graduated high school at age 17 in 2020, during the COVID pandemic and came straight to college on a full ride scholarship. Looking back, if I could decide to not graduate early I would.

650 likes

I hate to break it to you but…

postpartum muscle loss is real — and the years you’re having babies are the same years your muscle starts to decline. We lose strength during pregnancy and postpartum — and most women never rebuild it. Add in sleepless nights, stress, and under-eating… and your metabolism takes a bigger hi

1 like

Why your upper trap stretch isn’t working

If your upper traps always feel tight, stretching them may not be enough. Many people spend years stretching their neck and shoulders only to find that the tension keeps coming back. Sometimes the issue isn’t the upper traps themselves. When rib cage mobility is limited, the body may rely

0 likes

Stop Working for Someone Else & Take Control!

Tired of the stress, the boss, and working for someone else? There’s a better way! ☁️💸 If you’re ready to break free and take control of your income, stick around—I’ll show you how! #FinancialFreedom #WorkFromAnywhere #PassiveIncome

1 like

A young woman smiles at the camera, overlaid with text "A Day in My Life as a social media specialist working at a tech startup," set against a blurred office background.

A collage showing a morning routine, including reading a book, a woman in workout gear, makeup products, and hair washing, with text indicating "6:30am Wake up & get ready" and a list of activities.

A bright, modern coworking office space with large windows and natural light, featuring various seating arrangements and a person working, illustrating the author's arrival at 10:30 am.

Working for a startup be like…

Last year, I quit my corporate job with no backup plan. It was a stable job with an incredible income, benefits and culture, but the job itself just didn’t fit right with me and my needs. Leaving with no backup plan or another job lined up was hard, but I had to trust the process! Within a month

27 likes

Break time working hard🥰

22 likes

she’s backkkkkk 🤍

These last few days weren’t really about “taking a break” as much as they were about needing to fully focus on real life Between my husband’s injury, my teens needing extra support, work responsibilities, home responsibilities, working on content, and trying not to burn myself out while still sh

0 likes

let me break this down because nobody talks about this honestly.

income that looks good pays you when you show up. income that sets you free pays you when you don’t. income that looks good requires you to always be creating, always be selling, always be on. income that sets you free works while you’re at the pool on a Wednesday afternoon. income that

2 likes

When he tried to break me..but it didn’t work!

This time two years ago, my husband had just left me and a 6 month old baby. I was devastated, confused and really shocked! Why? I had done everything right! I had just purchased a home for our family, 6 bedrooms, 5 bathrooms. I had a new beautiful baby, and I was working on my business. This confe

13 likes

A hand with light-colored finger braces on the index, middle, and ring fingers, against a dark wooden surface. The text "Accessibility Comes In Many Forms" is overlaid at the top, highlighting the theme of the article.

A hand wearing light-colored finger braces on the index, middle, and ring fingers, holding a peach-colored makeup brush. The hand is positioned over a dark wooden surface, demonstrating the use of assistive devices.

A hand without finger braces holding a peach-colored makeup brush, with the fingers curled around the brush handle. The hand is against a dark wooden surface, showing the hand's natural grip.

Hopes of Working As a PRO MUA Again

Three years ago I was at the height of happiness. My skills as a makeup artist were in demand. My clientele was expanding. I was enjoying almost every aspect of a budding career. I truly believed the only direction I could keep going was up…And yet, towards the end of summer/fall bridal season I wa

264 likes

working on appreciating my natural self

idk about you but im exhausted with trying to keep up with all the upkeep girls do these days. i’ve never gotten filler or extensions or anything like that and it’s already sooo tiring and expensive being a girl. so this year i wanna make an effort to embrace my normal self more. obviously this

459 likes

Date ideas to break routine

#date #lemon8challenge #datenightideas #DateIdeas From someone who is easily bored and needs lots of stimulation, these are tried and true, and won’t disappoint 😉 1. Visit an aquarium. Show a pufferfish something shiny or sparkly- I promise you won’t be disappointed! Really take

9 likes

Lunch break side hustle: earn passive income fast

Let me keep it real. A few months ago, I was exhausted, underpaid, and wondering how I’d ever escape the 9-5 cycle. I’d scroll TikTok or Instagram on my break, wishing someone would just hand me a step-by-step game plan. Then I found it. A plug-and-play digital product system I didn’t have t

2 likes

A woman in dark grey medical scrubs takes a mirror selfie, showcasing her braided hair and professional attire. She holds a phone, reflecting her image in a full-body shot against a white door background.

A hand holds a pink mug with 'Allergic to Waking Up' text over a stainless steel sink. In the background, there is a paper towel dispenser and a hand soap dispenser, suggesting a workplace setting.

A close-up shot of a woman wearing dark grey medical scrubs, featuring a V-neck top with a chest pocket and a small black label. The image highlights the fabric and design of the uniform.

How I Make $250K as a RN at 27 Years Old

I’m not sharing this to brag. I’m sharing it because I wish I knew what was possible when I first started nursing. At 27, I’ll make around $250,000 this year as a travel nurse. Five years ago, I was a staff nurse working nights, exhausted, and barely able to save. I used to sit in the break room

330 likes

Let’s break it down 🤓👇🏻

This plate isn’t just “healthy”… it’s intentional. When you start understanding the power of food, putting meals together like this becomes simple—and your weight loss journey becomes a lot more sustainable. Let’s break it down: 🐟 Salmon – packed with protein and healthy fats (omega-3s) that

9 likes

Let me break it down for you

Listen I started on demand training when I first starting working out, now I created my own! #moves #flexible #convenient #letsgo

2 likes

See more