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A moment of tension!😱

Oh! Is it a fight?!

I think 😂 you want to do it when you're nervous

even so, i'm taking a picture! 🤣🤣

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... Read more私も緊張すると、不思議と普段しないような動作をしてしまうことがあります。例えば、手を頻繁に動かしたり、無意識に目線をそらしたりしてしまうんですよね。緊張の瞬間に現れるこうしたクセは、自分でも気づかないことが多いので、周囲の人の反応を見るのが面白く感じます。 特に家族や親しい人がそばにいると、その様子を写真や動画で撮られてしまうことも多いです。今回の話のように「おかんが撮ってますから!」という状況は、笑い話の種になりますし、後で見返すとその時の緊張がリアルに伝わってきて楽しい思い出になります。 緊張の原因は様々ですが、例えば大事な発表や試合前、初めての場所に行くときなど、誰でも経験するものです。そんな時に自分のクセや反応を把握しておくと、次第に上手に緊張をコントロールできるようになると感じています。 また、周りの人の緊張を和らげるために笑いを誘うエピソードを共有するのもおすすめです。緊張する瞬間は誰にでも訪れるものですから、共感し合いながら楽しく乗り切りましょう。

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