what iāve been struggling with at collegeš«£
1. wanting to move to chicago
chicago is super close to home and there is another school there that iāve been back and forth on transfering to. iāve made countless proās and conās list and I can never seem to fully figure out if I want to try and take that path or not.
2. missing my hometown
Iāve missed home so incredibly much, and I didnāt think homesickness could affect me as much as it has. my job at home has allowed me to be apart of my community in so many different ways and iāve created so many different friendships and memories, itās very hard to let all that go and start a new chapter in a big city where I have none of my family or friends around.
3. not knowing what career I want/what I want to do with my degree
this one I feel like is a big thing for so many college students. iāve wanted to go into fashion for as long as I can remember, but somewhere along the line I stopped loving it. Iāve been evaluating my goals and what I want out of my career and fashion hasnāt been my driving force recently. And it truly scares me, because that could be the potential for me trying something completely new which is very stressful for someone who likes to have her entire life planned out.
4. missing my friends and family
this one is such a big one that its basically on here twice. my family is super close and a great support system, so not having them there is super hard. my bestfriends are my people I go to for everything and they know every single detail about my life. we face time constantly but itās not the same as getting to hang out with them everyday. they are my literal support humans and I miss them tons.
a reminder that iāve been trying to tell myself lately is my whole life doesnāt have to be planned to a āTā. Iām just now turning 20 and I have time to take my life into a few different directions if I so choose, I donāt have to get a degree in fashion, I could do something completely different, Iāve really been loving social media and managing local businesses accounts, maybe I go into that? or not at all its all up in the air but this is truly the time to try everything and anything I want because your 20ās are for exactly that.
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Starting college is an exciting but daunting experience for many students. It often brings feelings of homesickness and uncertainty, particularly when contemplating life choices such as moving to a new city or dealing with the pressure of choosing a career path. According to recent survey data, over 70% of college students report feeling homesick at some point, which can have a significant impact on their mental well-being. Moreover, career indecision is a common issue facing students. The ever-evolving job market has made young individuals reconsider traditional career paths and explore new opportunities that resonate with their passions. In fact, many students transition multiple times in their college careers, aligning their studies with fields they genuinely enjoy. It's crucial to remember that navigating through these uncertainties is part of the learning process and that taking the time to explore different interests can lead to fulfilling career paths. Utilizing resources like counseling services can help students cope with homesickness and career anxiety. Joining clubs or engaging in local events can also facilitate making new friends while still cherishing old relationships. Finally, embracing change during this formative stage of life allows students to cultivate resilience, leading to a richer college experience.
speaking from experienceā¦.transfer!!! move to chicago!!! I currently live in chicago, and have my whole life. I moved to wisconsin for college my first semester and absolutely hated it. I went back and forth for weeks about transferring. I transferred to a school in illinois, outside of chicagoā¦ā¦