How are You Making Friends in Your 20s?

I've been having such a hard time making and keeping real friendships as an adult. Does anyone have any advice? #lemon8contest #letschat

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2024/12/18 Edited to

... Read moreMaking friends in your 20s can be challenging, but it is also a crucial time for networking and forming meaningful relationships. As young adults transition into their careers and personal lives, the dynamics of social interactions shift significantly. One effective way to build friendships is by participating in community events, hobby groups, or volunteer opportunities, which can provide a shared interest with others. Social media platforms can also serve as a helpful resource to connect with like-minded individuals. Engaging in online forums, joining interests-based groups on platforms like Facebook, or even using apps designed for meeting new people can open up various avenues for friendship. Importantly, don't underestimate the power of face-to-face interactions – consider reaching out to colleagues or classmates to grab coffee or chat after class. Building friendships requires time and effort, so be patient and proactive in your approach. Additionally, honing social skills such as active listening, empathy, and open communication can facilitate deeper connections and foster trust among potential friends. Remember that quality of friendships often outweighs quantity, so seeking meaningful connections can lead to more fulfilling relationships in your 20s.

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It's really hard for me as well but I've gone the online way of finding friends since I don't really go out/do social activities that make people come up to you. I'd suggest using Bumble BFF try out your luck there I've actually met 4 good friends of mine there!! I've only met 1 in person but that's cuz it's winter now

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It’s so hard!! I’ve been joining local groups on Facebook and joining classes for things I’m interested in. This has allowed me to meet new people in a new and creative way. Sometimes it’s easier and sometimes it’s still very hard.

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