Which one would you pick?

I’m choosing between two apartments and my brain is doing backflips.

Option 1:

• 40 sqm

• Huge 14 sqm balcony

• Literally across the street from my job

• New building, clean and simple

• Cheaper

• In a nicer, newer area

Option 2:

• 70 sqm (so much more space)

• No balcony

• 20–25 min commute (walk + tram)

• Cute decor, wider rooms, nicer kitchen

• 25–30% more expensive (not impossible but right at my limit)

• More restaurants/cafés nearby

I’m 28, single, a total homebody, and most of my hobbies are computer-based or homey (reading, music, etc.). No pets. Not a big city, so both places are still reasonably connected.

I keep going back and forth:

Do I take the convenience and outdoor space? Or splurge for the bigger, cozier interior even if it means a commute and tighter budget?

Which would you choose?

#AskLemon8 #LetsChat #ApartmentHunt

2025/12/13 Edited to

... Read moreDeciding between two apartments often boils down to balancing convenience, space, budget, and lifestyle preferences. In this case, the choice is between a small 40 sqm apartment with a generous 14 sqm balcony located just across the street from work, and a larger 70 sqm apartment with no balcony but a 20–25 minute commute and more dining options nearby. From a practical standpoint, living close to work can significantly reduce daily stress and commute time, freeing up more hours for personal hobbies and relaxation—especially valuable for a homebody who enjoys indoor activities like reading and music. The added benefit of an outdoor space such as a large balcony provides an extended area to unwind, entertain, or even indulge in small container gardening, which cannot be overlooked. On the other hand, the larger apartment offers increased living space, wider rooms, and a nicer kitchen, which can enhance comfort and functionality at home. For someone who prefers cozier interiors and enjoys cooking or entertaining, the space advantage may justify the longer commute and higher cost. Being surrounded by more restaurants and cafés provides social opportunities and convenience for outings, which can enrich the lifestyle. Budget is also a critical factor; stretching to the limit on rent can cause long-term financial stress, so weighing whether the extra space is worth 25–30% higher costs is essential. Additionally, the commute may impact daily energy levels and flexibility. Ultimately, the best choice depends on personal priorities—valuing time and outdoor access versus space and neighborhood amenities. Many find that proximity to work and access to fresh air outweigh extra square meters, especially without pets or a requirement for frequent guest hosting. Others cherish larger living quarters for comfort and home activities despite the commute. Considering the OCR content "Small apartment + 2-minute commute or bigger place + a daily trek across town?" highlights the key question of convenience versus space. Taking a day or two to imagine daily routines, commute quality, and how much outdoor space means to your mental wellbeing can help with a confident decision. For anyone facing a similar apartment hunt, writing down must-haves, creating a pros and cons list, and assessing how each option supports your lifestyle can clarify the choice. Remember, an ideal home supports happiness, productivity, and comfort tailored to individual needs.

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Maddie

I would choose one you are saving not only time but money too. So even tho the first one is smaller I’d take it my reasons for saying that are you do have a balcony but you can also have more time to do things you want to like (workout,sleep in, crafting etc.) since less commute time plus saving money on the apt being cheaper but also saving money on the gas for the commute and on electricity smaller place less to heat/cool.

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Alexis Rand

Personally, Id ask myself “what would I do with that commute time?”. I love 33 minutes from work on purpose! I can eat in the car and listen to sermons before work. So it’s worth it for me.

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