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Most mothers "unconsciously start their first meal wrong," 😢 and it can leave their children "eating" for a long time to come.

Many houses are meeting like this...

The lip ball ❌ turned away, ❌ bent every time I saw the spoon.

I meant to cook well, but you said, "No."

The truth is...

Your first meal * * is not a full meal * *

But it's "the first memory of food." 🧠

# # # 🥣 Step 1: Diet (6 months old starting)

* Ground rice mixed with breast milk / mixed milk, fine silky texture

* Still don't have to rush variety

👉 you to "get used to the tongue" before you know the taste.

# # # 📏 Step 2: Quantity (Less Than Thought)

* Start 1-2 teaspoons / meal

* You don't have to eat it all

👉 This job is "experimental," not "forced to eat."

# # # 🥄 Step 3: How to Enter (Future Judge)

* Slow feed, wait for the ball to open its mouth

* Not stuffed, not deceived, not on screen

👉 Good eating = baby feels "safe."

# # # 💡 Insight that parents don't usually know

Children are not "stubborn" or "choose to eat."

But he's learning something new that's not familiar.

The more accelerated = the more closed the heart

The more pressure = the more the ball resists.

# # # 🧠 Reframe Important

"Eating = learning."

It's not an easy measure of who the babysitter is.

# # # 📌 Summary easy to remember

Soft + Little + Slow

= Baby is not afraid of food = long-term easy to eat ❤️

📌, a new mom can actually press "Save This Post."

📤 Share it for people in the house to read so they can raise it the same way.

👉 Follow "Mother Cane is good."

* * The next EP will tell you what you can't do that makes your child not eat! * *

# Mother Cane says good ♪ First meal # 6 months # New Mom # Children eat hard# Positive child rearing # Child development # Child nutrition

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