👩🏻‍🍼 Work, be a "mother and wife." What do you want to find? ❓

Before the baby, we and our girlfriend talked about...

If you're born one day, I'll leave my party, and my girlfriend will fully support the money. 💵

I thought this was "ready," but in real time, it wasn't like I thought. 😅

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🌪. What I really found.

✨. Many losses.

Work, income, opportunity, and "self-worth," because both we and society often value people for their money.

Value = 0

✨ Daily life is more brutal than office work.

Eat quickly, one hand holding the baby, one hand scooping rice. 🍚👶

Hardly a shower. Pretty dressed, not to mention.

When going to the bathroom, you still have to carry the baby and lap it. 🥲

✨ No time to heal himself.

Some days you have to sleep, some days you can't sleep to do housework, you don't have time for yourself.

✨ The sound of those around you.

"What to do if the husband leaves?"

"This condition, where would the husband want to look?"

These words are even more upsetting because, on the other hand, they find out that they are true, but we choose the face of the sword. 😂

Finally... I went to the psychiatrist and knew I was depressed by the accumulated fatigue + toxic people around.

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🍼 Selected solution

After consulting a doctor and a girlfriend, I decided to send you to Nursery so I could get back in time. 🏫

Picked up the work you wanted to do, such as housework, Tikis 📱

Give yourself more time and focus on "my happiness."

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💬 The doctor said one sentence that changed us:

"If you're not happy, how can you raise a happy child?"

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🌈 What it takes to raise a child on your own.

A strong relationship with the baby. ❤️

Raising Children in Our Custom Direction 💪

Do not quarrel with anyone about "Do you want to feed bananas" or "drop water because of the yellow body?" 😂

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👉 For anyone who is planning to leave the job to raise their own child... preparing a lot of heart, it's really exhausting, but what comes back is a value that can't be found anywhere. 💖

Considered to share experiences and take back to consider applying to your own life path

If you choose to walk the same line, please encourage us to be friends! 🤣🤣🤣

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