Automatically translated.View original post

The Truth of "Trauma."

Bad memories that flash back to random moments. It's really hard, isn't it?

However, just knowing the "true identity" logically makes my heart feel lighter.

In conclusion, it is not because you are weak.

It's just an excessive defense response that the brain is sounding an alert based on past data.

First of all, please praise yourself for surviving with that pain.

Your future is not a continuation of the past. You can rewrite it anew from today.

I hope this post will be a small light that will illuminate your tomorrow.

I recommend saving it so that you can look back on a hard night 📚🌿

# life _ tips Self-acceptance Mental Strengthening Trouble solving # Costume MBA

2/19 Edited to

... Read moreトラウマに悩む多くの方は、自分の弱さを責めたり、過去の出来事に囚われ続けてしまいます。私自身もかつては同じように、辛い記憶が突然蘇って心が折れそうになることがありました。しかし、トラウマの本質が脳の過剰な防衛反応だと知ったとき、考え方が大きく変わりました。 脳は「まだ危険だ」と誤解して警戒信号を出しているだけで、その反応は決して自分の弱さではありません。むしろ、その過去の痛みや葛藤を抱えて生き抜いてきた自分を認め、褒めてあげることがとても重要です。これは自己受容の第一歩であり、メンタルを強化する大きな力になります。 私は、トラウマを抱えている自分でも未来を新しく書き換えられると信じて、少しずつできることから前向きに取り組むようにしています。例えば、つらい記憶に向き合うことを避けるのではなく、日記を書いて気持ちを整理したり、信頼できる友人や専門家に相談することも効果的でした。 トラウマが原因で自己肯定感が下がることもありますが、あなたの価値は過去の出来事に左右されません。大切なのは、過去の悲しい記憶に主導権を渡さず、あなた自身が人生の舵を握ること。未来は必ず変えられるのです。 この記事が、つらい夜に読み返し心の支えになれば嬉しいです。あなたはひとりではありません。自分を大切に、少しずつ前進していきましょう。

Related posts

Books for Healing & Understanding Trauma
Heal your inner child by learning about yourself on a deeper psychological level #traumahealing #childhoodtrauma #traumabooks #booksoflemon8
Shannon Lewis Rice

Shannon Lewis Rice

2207 likes

The Truth To Lifting SAGGING BREAST!
The Truth To Lifting SAGGING BREAST! In this video, we will be doing a saggy breast workout that you can do at home. However, before we start the saggy breast routine, need to let you know the truth about lifting your breasts. #fitnessmotivation #saggingbreasts #healthylifestyle #fitness
MrLondon

MrLondon

2015 likes

The image displays the 9 questions of the Childhood Trauma (ACE) Test, covering various adverse childhood experiences. It includes a scoring guide, where each 'Yes' answer counts as one point, categorizing scores into lower, high, and significant trauma risk levels.
Childhood Trauma Leaves Marks We Can’t See 🫶
So many of us grew up carrying scars no one ever talked about. The ACE trauma test shows just how deeply childhood abuse, neglect, or chaos can shape our lives. But here’s the truth: your score does not define your future. Healing is possible. 💜 Every “yes” might represent pain, but it also repr
HerSeason0

HerSeason0

683 likes

The truth about glass skin…
I have heard of this before, but I never believed it. I’ve been noticing that my skin feels so irritated and it gets red easily, it also feels tight even when it’s moisturized. I decided to switch up my routine and I’ve been using more oil based products, like this toner. It feels amazing on th
Salomé Alvarado

Salomé Alvarado

2314 likes

The truth
Nickwilkins

Nickwilkins

11.5K likes

The hard truth of farm life.💔
This weekend was a hard one for us. Here’s a look into lady’s birth to her triplets. #farm #farmlife #homesteadinglife #goats #grief
Krista🌾

Krista🌾

623 likes

The Truth about Trauma Bonding
Trauma bonding isn’t bonding over shared trauma. It’s when someone hurts you, but also shows moments of care or comfort, creating a confusing cycle that makes it harder to walk away. This isn’t weakness. It’s how the nervous system responds to inconsistent harm and relief.Healthy relationships fee
Takara Taylor, MA LLP

Takara Taylor, MA LLP

72 likes

Complex Trauma/CPTS
Complex trauma isn’t “just” anxiety, sadness, or overthinking. It’s being stuck in survival mode even when nothing is wrong. It’s the fear of being too much and not enough at the same time. It’s the guilt after speaking your truth. The shame that sneaks in when you start to feel safe. It’s laye
Soft Truths 🪽

Soft Truths 🪽

15 likes

Trauma and Chronic Illness
“It’s not all in your head—it’s in your nervous system. Trauma doesn’t just leave emotional scars… it reshapes the body. From autoimmune flares to heart disease, chronic stress can become chronic illness. But healing is possible. You deserve trauma-informed care that sees all of you—your pain, y
Soft Truths 🪽

Soft Truths 🪽

17 likes

GOSPEL Truth in Every Letter
Sometimes all it takes is one verse to change everything. John 3:16 reminds us of God’s endless love and the promise of everlasting life. Let every letter of “GOSPEL” speak life into your heart today! #FaithJournaling #John316 #GospelTruth #BibleVerseArt #ChristianInspo
ItsSirrahhhh

ItsSirrahhhh

2905 likes

here’s the TRUTH God wants you to know! ♥️
Hi friends!!! Let the verse of Isaiah 46:4 be a source of comfort and strength that you can always refer back to. 🫶🏽☕️🧸 It’s so easy to get caught up in the lies we tell ourselves. The world can lead us to comparison, burnout, doubt, and confusion. That’s why it’s so important to remember th
Isabella Nordstrom

Isabella Nordstrom

5596 likes

A warm overhead shot shows a cup of coffee, an open notebook with a pencil, and a textured blanket. The text overlay reads: 'These 6 Habits Felt Normal Until I Realized They Were Trauma Responses'.
A light gray textured background displays the text: '1. Over-apologizing – Saying sorry even when it's not your fault.'
A light gray textured background displays the text: '2. People-pleasing – Putting others first to feel safe or accepted.'
6 Habits I Didn’t Know Were Trauma Responses
“I used to think these habits were just part of my personality… turns out, they were symptoms of survival.” No one tells you that being “the chill one,” “the responsible one,” or “the overthinker” can be side effects of emotional wounds you never got to process. These 6 habits once helped me
nextreadwithjade

nextreadwithjade

2711 likes

A laptop screen displays the title 'The Unfiltered Truth of College' with a person's face wearing glasses visible on the screen. The Lemon8 logo and username are at the bottom.
A laptop screen shows an online quiz with history questions. An overlay reads, 'YOUR NOT ALWAYS GONNA GET A GOOD GRADE ON EVERYTHING,' reflecting a college student's experience. The Lemon8 logo is visible.
A table with a pink laptop, a container of nachos, and a drink. An overlay states, 'IT'S REALLY EASY TO FORGET TO EAT BECAUSE OF ALL OF THE WORK YOU HAVE TO DO PLEASE EAT,' highlighting student struggles.
The Unfiltered Truth of College 🤍🌸🤍🌸
Hey guys I’m finishing my second year of college so if you have any questions feel free to ask!! I’m also currently filming my move out vlog so be on the lookout for that!! #unfiltered #Lemon8Diary #university #collegestudent #college #Lemon8 #shareyourthoughts #universitystudent #s
Makayla Logan

Makayla Logan

232 likes

A forest scene with autumn leaves and sunlight, featuring the title 'How to Cleanse Your Energy AND Honor Your Trauma Response' in white text on a dark overlay. The Lemon8 logo and username are at the bottom left.
A forest scene with autumn leaves and blue sky, displaying text about being energetic and trauma-informed, explaining that feeling overwhelmed means your system is protecting you, and introducing 5 steps to cleanse energy.
A forest scene with autumn trees and sun glare, showing 'Step 1 - Pause & Acknowledge Your Body's Signal' and 'Step 2 - Cleanse Your Energy Gently (Not Forcefully)' with examples like breathwork and salt baths.
Cleansing your energy after a trauma response 🌊
Feeling drained, overstimulated, or like your trauma response is running the show? Cleansing your energy isn't about "good vibes only." It's about releasing what's not yours and honoring the parts of you that are protecting your peace. Your trauma responses — like shutting d
withlovefromchelle

withlovefromchelle

693 likes

Healing of Trauma
#trauma #heal #read #books
Daily Dose of Inspo

Daily Dose of Inspo

34 likes

The Healing of Trauma 🫶🏾
Ah man! It took me awhile to finish this book but it was so informative. To my fellow clinicians, it’s a MUST READ ‼️ Soooo many good points. ⭐️Overall rating: 5/5 🤩 #readersoflemon8 #mentalhealthawareness #traumahealing #therapistsoflemon8 #healingjourney #thebodykeepsthescore #bo
simplymerc

simplymerc

10 likes

The Role of Repression, Trauma & Conditioning
The shadow forms from three sources: 🌑 Repression — emotions denied. 💔 Trauma — pain split off. 📖 Conditioning — masks shaped by family + society. But what once protected you is not meant to define you forever. Shadow work is about meeting these parts with compassion + integration. Are yo
💫The Divine Academy🌟

💫The Divine Academy🌟

6 likes

people hate the truth
you hate the truth because I'm exposing Brandy Ray j anybody else when you don't know anything about Hollywood or the music industry because you ain't never been there you ain't never been to that dark Kingdom all you know is your whole life it's past you by and that you getting
Aaliyah my wife loves me

Aaliyah my wife loves me

9 likes

Trauma lives in the body 😖
Trauma lives in the body. I didn’t fully understand this until I experienced what I now call “the shattering.” It wasn’t just my own patterns that broke open, my fears, my addictions, my negative cycles, but the ones I carried from my lineage. I saw the pain of my grandmother, my mother, and eve
Ania Halama | Holistic Mentor✨

Ania Halama | Holistic Mentor✨

10 likes

The Trauma Healing ❤️‍🩹 Truth
“Forgiveness is the medicine. Reconciliation is the risk. Only you decide what’s sacred for your healing.” #TraumaHealing #ForgivenessJourney #SelfHealing #ReclaimYourPower #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #HealingIsSacred #AlunaShai
Soft Truths 🪽

Soft Truths 🪽

43 likes

A Declaration of Truth and a Call to ActionTo all
#thetruth #identity #Yahweh #Yeshua #endofbeginning Boulder
Joshua David

Joshua David

27 likes

A young woman with dark hair smiles at the camera from inside a car. Text overlay reads "i am autistic," indicating her self-identification.
A collage of nine images depicting various romantic moments between couples, including kissing, holding hands, and hugging. The text overlay states, "we can have romantic relationships."
A collage of eight different food items, such as avocados, mangoes, pancakes, sushi, and tacos. The text overlay reads, "we have foods we love."
the truth about autism.
kaylee 🌇🫧

kaylee 🌇🫧

3355 likes

Childhood Trauma Truths
💯hard truth…💜 #truth #harshtruth #parentingtips #Insights #trauma 🫶🏼🫂🪷👍
✨Shilina Rose🕊️

✨Shilina Rose🕊️

8 likes

A person with dark hair looks directly at the camera, crouching on a carpeted floor. Overlay text reads: "5 things I WISH I KNEW before starting a youtube channel."
A person holds up a striped shirt, looking surprised, with a bed and shoes in the background. Overlay text includes: "All my clothes are ugly... help," "the thumbnail is half the battle," and "affordable."
A bedroom scene featuring a bed, a nightstand, and various lighting equipment including a large ring light and a softbox. Overlay text reads: "lighting>>."
the ugly truth of starting a youtube channel
i realize a lot of this might sound harsh, and i don’t mean it to be, this is more of the technical stuff in regards to youtube. your vibes and authenticity is not something i’m here to talk about or judge in this episode, this is more specific things that youtube likes or doesn’t like! 1. the t
teasabi

teasabi

1230 likes

The truth about Bible Study…
Bible Study, studying the Bible can be different for everyone. Here is a list of various ways to study the Bible. Abundance & Blessings 💕🙏🏾 #biblestudy #studythebible #biblestudytemplate #Lemon8Diary #jesusfollower #godislove #biblestudytips #hellolemon8 #bibleverse #ch
Lady Nini 💕

Lady Nini 💕

1134 likes

2 books on trauma and healing
One sub-genre that I want to read more of this year is trauma, healing, and the psychology surrounding those two subjects Here are 2 books that I want to read to achieve that goal: 1. The Body Keeps the Score by Van der Kolk > delves into how trauma deeply affects both the body and mind,
BATE by Rana

BATE by Rana

223 likes

A light beige title card for an article titled '15 THINGS for the Mama Breaking Generational Trauma by Tiara Rogers'. It features outline illustrations of a mother and child holding hands, a sun with a cloud, and a tree with roots. The Lemon8 logo is in the bottom left.
15 Things for Mamas Breaking Generational Trauma
15 Things for the Mama Breaking Generational Trauma (Because healing starts with you, but it damn sure doesn’t end with you.) 1. You are allowed to do it differently, even if it makes the ones before you uncomfortable. Love doesn’t require repetition—it requires courage. 2. “That’s just how
Tiara Rogers

Tiara Rogers

1020 likes

Thriller about trauma, truth, and the danger of relief dressed up as mercy.
This book is a blessing from God. Period. When I was too sick to finish school, I thought my future was over. Instead, He gave me the words for Elias Wynn: The Witness. It's a thriller that explores faith, deception, and true healing. If you want to support Christian fiction that isn't afra
authorsaguzman

authorsaguzman

1 like

A pink dropper dispenses pink serum into a brown bottle labeled 'The Ordinary. Soothing & Barrier Support Serum,' with text indicating it's 'The Pink Serum' and costs less than $20.
A brown bottle with a white dropper and a white box, both labeled 'The Ordinary. Soothing & Barrier Support Serum,' are displayed on a light background.
A side profile of a person's face with braided hair and glasses, showing a highlighted area on the cheek with 'Minor breakout & redness' indicated.
The ✨TRUTH✨ About the Pink Serum
As someone with oily and acne prone skin, I can absolutely vouch for this product helping repair your skin’s natural barrier and maintaining its hydration! Without this product my skin is a bit dry in some areas, and I get a little redness from acne irritation. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it a
Aja Denise

Aja Denise

4232 likes

Learn to heal from the trauma 🫶
Nameless2000

Nameless2000

1158 likes

“Nice” was my trauma response.
I wasn’t healing, I was hiding behind a smile. Recognize these patterns? ⤵️ I used to think healing was all about putting on a brave face and dealing with the pain. Being polite, forgiving people too easily, and keeping my feelings to myself so I wouldn’t hurt anyone else. I was really goo
Ania Halama | Holistic Mentor✨

Ania Halama | Holistic Mentor✨

4 likes

A circular diagram titled 'Trauma Recovery Wheel' illustrating six interconnected pillars of healing: Access to Safety, Self-Trust, Healthy Relationships, Integrated Story, Life Engagement, and Emotion Acceptance. Each section contains specific actions and concepts for trauma recovery, emphasizing a holistic approach.
The Trauma Recovery Wheel
Healing from trauma is not a straight line—it is a process made up of many interconnected parts, each supporting the others. The Trauma Recovery Wheel is a holistic framework designed to honor that truth. Rather than focusing on “fixing” what is broken, this wheel centers on restoring balance, safe
💫 Jacquelyn 💫

💫 Jacquelyn 💫

48 likes

The Dark truth about Dr Pepper 💔
this is soooo sad, i literally can’t believe this 🥹!! #dr pepper #sad #dark
kinsley 🫧

kinsley 🫧

7058 likes

A person in medical scrubs with a stethoscope around their neck, sitting down. The image has text overlayed that reads, "THE TRUTH THEY DON'T TELL YOU ABOUT IN NURSING."
A hand holding an open book, a cup of coffee, and a white sneaker on a wooden surface. Text describes how nursing rewires the brain, leading to passion, stress, anxiety, and exhaustion.
A hand holding a large stack of US dollar bills. Text discusses that nursing pay is often insufficient for the emotional and physical demands, including long shifts, travel, and working holidays.
The Truth About Being A Nurse 🩺
I hate when people say nurses or just anyone in healthcare makes it their whole personality. Even if true, I say as they should. It’s something that you’ll honestly never be able to understand until you have put in the hours, the tears, & the dedication that it takes. It changes you as a person
Hailey J 🩺

Hailey J 🩺

1307 likes

THE HARD TRUTH! TRIGGER WARNING!
Hiiiiiii I’m Mamacita!! Nice to meet you 🙂 Honey If you’ve been in a long-term relationship and are wondering why the man you’re with hasn’t yet popped the question, you’re not alone. Many women find themselves questioning their partner's commitment, especially when they feel like they’ve al
Mamacita

Mamacita

103 likes

The truth about your trauma and VA claim
The truth about your trauma and VA claim: It's not your fault. Let's talk about why understanding and owning your experience is key to moving forward. Don't minimize your story— it matters. VNCC is here to support you. #Veteran #VAClaims #vadisabilityrating #vncc #askdp
David Pineda |Veteran Advocate

David Pineda |Veteran Advocate

1 like

The hidden truth of anti-anxiety drugs
Always know what you are putting into your body. Benzos are much more powerful than you think!
Gilded Psychiatry

Gilded Psychiatry

10 likes

What trauma does to the amygdala
The amygdala is your brain’s emotional center. It’s the part that senses danger and helps you stay safe. When you go through trauma, that part gets stuck on high alert. So even when you’re not in danger, your body feels like you are. That’s why you feel anxious. Why you snap quickly. Why smal
Dr Marlene Phillip | Trauma Ed

Dr Marlene Phillip | Trauma Ed

32 likes

Truth
#trauma #traumaresponse #recovering #selfcare
Morgan Ann

Morgan Ann

5 likes

The Truth About Healing
Healing is a beautiful thing but the process takes a lot of work! Accountability is one of the most important parts of truly healing. It not only allows you to take ownership in your process but it allows you to reclaim your power. Take back control! #healing #breakup #power #traum
Iambrittshanice

Iambrittshanice

21 likes

The Hard Truth About Your Finances 😬💰
I grew up in a middle to lower class family who was by no means living in rags, but we weren’t in riches either. I was never really equipped with financial literacy. It was something I had to find for myself, as a young adult. We grow accustomed to the way the world brought us up, but what we o
han marie 🍋

han marie 🍋

5359 likes

The truth about Old Money Aesthetic ⚜️
Hi Lemons! 🍋 Lately I’ve noticed that Old Money Aesthetic is all the rage and I wanted to debunk some myths I’ve witnessed with true old money french people (I personally don’t belong in that, but had the privilege of seeing a lot around) ⚜️ Old money fashion is not always plain Old money tends
Melanie

Melanie

1521 likes

A podcast episode cover featuring a smiling woman, Allany Muniz, in glasses and a green top, against a purple background. The title reads 'Epilepsy and Mental Health: Severe Depression, Anxiety, and the Healing Power of Sharing Your Story' from 'The Chronic Truth' podcast.
Check out The Chronic Truth Episode: Allany’s Story
#mentalhealthawareness #epilepsyawareness #mentalhealth #epilepsy #podcast
Diary of an Epileptic

Diary of an Epileptic

1 like

Psych🌈s show you the truth of who you are
#healing #mushroom #plantmedicine
Morganna Leigh

Morganna Leigh

5 likes

The truth about my first year as an RN
Your first year as a nurse is a rollercoaster—overwhelming, exhausting, but also incredibly rewarding. From imposter syndrome and tough patients to time management struggles and endless learning, it’s a lot to handle. The key is to stay organized, ask questions, find a mentor, and take care of
𝓑𝓻𝓲𝓪𝓷𝓷𝓪 ◡̈

𝓑𝓻𝓲𝓪𝓷𝓷𝓪 ◡̈

609 likes

See more