Quit repetitive quarrel! Just understand this' weakness' of men. ✅

Have you ever quarreled about the same thing? How many times do you not understand? Almost paraphrased...

Ming wants to say that, actually, man, he has some 'mechanics' that don't look like us. 🤣

...If you understand this point, marriage will go up 300%.

🔻 weakness 1: "Men are afraid of being blamed."

When we complain, "Why are you doing this?" they don't hear what we want, but they feel like they're being scolded. "

✅ Solution: Change from blame to feelings, such as "he feels lonely if you play late games," instead of "what are you going to play?"

🔻 weakness 2: "The male brain focuses on solving problems, not focusing on listening."

When we tell bad stories, they quickly offer solutions until we feel like, "Why not comfort each other?" But actually, that's how they express their love (the weakness is that most men comfort the incapable).

✅ Solution: Tell me exactly what you want from the beginning, "Let me vent today. You don't have to think about a solution. Just a hug."

🔻 Weakness 3: "Want to be a Hero in the eyes of a fan."

A man will lose out of praise and acceptance. If he feels that he is with us and he becomes impenetrable, he will start to distance himself.

✅ Solution: Use a little compliment as a lubricant, such as "Thank you for washing dishes. It's a lot more comfortable."

💓 understanding weaknesses is not to give him one side, but to 'choose how to communicate' to maintain a relationship. 💓

* * What about your friends? What weaknesses do you have that we know about? Can you control the game? Let's share it in the comments. 😍

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