Love marathon 10 years because there are 3 iron rules!!

The Ming couple have been dating for 10 years, from college to the day of their marriage to their family. Many people like to ask how to not be bored? How to survive until today?

...To be honest, a 10-year marriage is not sprinkled with rose petals, quarreled, bored, tired like any other couple.

But one of the things that makes us walk this far is not because of luck or because one of them is a good person.

* * But because we have the "3 Iron Rules" agreed and followed strictly.

📍 Rule 1: "Do not let spend the night" (angry, but must end the day).

If quarreling or not understanding each other, do not escape, do not be silent, and do not separate the bedroom!!

Because the longer it lasts, the higher the wall.

Finish fighting, face to talk, clear for a reason before bed to sleep.

And wake up a new morning with a feeling 100% cleared.

📍 Rule 2: "Private space must have; collective duties must not be lacking."

(Don't break each other's trust)

Long time. No need to be 24 hours together.

Each Ming couple has their own space. From before having children to having children, they still give each other personal space. Because we have work to do, friends to meet, hobbies to like. Each person goes to do what they like fully without following each other. Just ask with concern.

But there is a caveat that "collective duties," such as home care, future planning, supplying important matters, must not be impaired!!

Trust and fit distance make it not boring.

And must not break the trust

📍 Rule 3: "Think before you speak, even when you are very angry."

(Do not break up, do not say bad words!!)

This rule is the most important for long-term love!!

The word "quit" and bad words or violent sarcastic words are forbidden by our partners.

Because it's a word that impairs feelings and diminishes the value of relationships.

No matter how angry you are, I'll tell you what I'm angry about today. I don't want to talk right now.

But do not splash the word to stop at each other for irony

And profanity, insulting each other, do not come out!!

💘 10 years ago. Proved that...

Love alone is not really enough!!

But it's "teamwork," respect for the rules created together.

And being ready to adapt to each other at any stage of life.

They have to be better together and make their marriage better.

To live together happily and for a long time 💖

* * What about your friends' partners? What iron rules are there to support each other? Let's share. 👇✨

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