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Married a Malaysian Chinese in-law.

The known period is not long, 2 years and 2 months.

💐 talked for 6 months. After that, I went to my girlfriend's house. Thank you to my family, my girlfriend didn't mind. Because at first he didn't like us because we worked at night (after coming to his house and didn't work anymore). At the beginning of the year 1/01/2025 was the date of the marriage registration and the wedding on the 3/10/2025 day. All I said is that we didn't pay for the expenses, only the husband and family paid 🙏🏻💸. In the picture is the atmosphere of the morning. The evening job will find a picture of a moment. Very happy. Raise tea. Get a packet of swan pao and gold to accept our daughter-in-law alone for a total of about 32 grams (2 Thai baht). But here he will get a silver wedding for just 100000 + ฿. There will be no type 300000 + ฿. Like in Thailand, the ceremony was taken together. ❤️🇲🇾🇹🇭# In-law, Chinese, Malaysian 🇹🇭🇲🇾 # A small wedding

2025/10/13 Edited to

... Read moreการเป็นสะใภ้ในครอบครัวจีนมาเลเซียถือเป็นประสบการณ์ที่เต็มไปด้วยความท้าทายและความอบอุ่นในเวลาเดียวกัน สำหรับผู้ที่เข้ามาอยู่ในวัฒนธรรมนี้ สิ่งสำคัญคือการเข้าใจและเคารพวิถีชีวิต รวมถึงประเพณีที่มีความแตกต่างจากประเทศไทยอย่างชัดเจน จากเนื้อหาที่กล่าวถึง การเริ่มต้นคบหาและการใช้เวลารวมกันเพียง 2 ปี 2 เดือนก่อนแต่งงาน ถือเป็นช่วงเวลาที่ค่อนข้างรวดเร็ว แต่ก็สร้างความสัมพันธ์และความไว้วางใจได้เป็นอย่างดี โดยเฉพาะการได้เข้าบ้านแฟนและได้รับการยอมรับจากครอบครัวแม้ในช่วงแรกจะเจอความไม่เข้าใจเกี่ยวกับการทำงานกลางคืน ซึ่งเป็นเรื่องที่ต้องใช้ความอดทนและการสื่อสารที่ดี พิธีแต่งงานแบบจีนมาเลเซียมีความเรียบง่าย งบประมาณที่ใช้ไม่สูงมาก แตกต่างจากพิธีไทยที่มักมีการใช้เงินจำนวนมาก โดยการรับซองหงส์เปาและทองน้ำหนักรวมประเมินเป็นประมาณ 32 กรัม หรือราว 2 บาทไทย ถือเป็นสัญลักษณ์ของความโชคดีและการต้อนรับสะใภ้เข้าสู่ครอบครัว นอกจากเรื่องพิธีการแล้ว สิ่งที่สะท้อนความสุขและความสำเร็จในการเป็นสะใภ้คือความรักและความสามัคคีในครอบครัว พิธีพูดคุยแลกเปลี่ยนและถ่ายรูปร่วมกันแสดงออกถึงความเป็นหนึ่งเดียวที่สำคัญมากในวัฒนธรรมจีน มาเลเซีย สำหรับผู้ที่สนใจหรือกำลังจะก้าวเข้าสู่บทบาทนี้ ควรเปิดใจเรียนรู้วัฒนธรรม ปรับตัวเข้ากับวิถีชีวิต และให้ความสำคัญกับความสัมพันธ์ในครอบครัวเพื่อลดช่องว่างและสร้างความผูกพันอย่างยั่งยืนอย่างแท้จริง การรวมความรัก วัฒนธรรม และประเพณีอย่างพอดีนี้เองที่ช่วยให้ชีวิตแต่งงานมีความสุขและน่าจดจำอย่างแท้จริง

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