If you had to define success what would you say

Everyone’s view of success looks different. What does it mean to you? What does it look like to you?

I believe my answer constantly changes due to getting older and having more life experiences as time goes on.

Right now it means: having good health, being financially free, having my family healthy, being able to do the things I love . #letschat #chatwithdy #adulting #questionstoask #success

2025/1/9 Edited to

... Read moreIt's so true, isn't it? What success means to us really does shift as we journey through life. I remember when I was younger, my idea of 'making it' was often tied to career climbing and a hefty salary. But honestly, chasing someone else's dream just left me feeling empty, constantly wondering, 'What does success really mean?' For too long, society pushed a narrow vision: the big job, fancy car, perfect house. As I gained more life experience, I realized this external validation often masked deeper unhappiness. That's when I began my own journey of redefining success. It wasn't about rejecting ambition, but recalibrating it with what truly resonated with my soul. So, how do we begin to truly understand what success means for *ourselves*? I've found it starts with honest introspection, much like the question displayed in the article: 'What does success look like /mean to you?' First, think about your core values. What truly makes you feel alive and fulfilled? Is it impact, creativity, connection, peace, or adventure? When my daily actions aligned with my values, things clicked. Success isn't always grand achievements; it's found in simple, everyday moments – a quiet morning coffee, a meaningful conversation, finishing a small personal project. These little wins build an overall sense of accomplishment. Like the original post mentioned, good health is paramount. Without our well-being, everything else feels harder to enjoy. For me, what success really means now includes prioritizing my mental and physical health – getting enough sleep, nourishing my body, finding calm, and moving in ways that feel good. It's about consistent effort, not perfection. And financial freedom? It’s not necessarily about being a millionaire, but having enough security to make choices that reduce stress and support the life you genuinely want. Not constantly worrying about bills frees up so much mental space for creativity and joy. This newfound peace of mind is a huge part of my evolving definition. Having healthy, supportive relationships, whether with family or chosen friends, is another huge marker of success for me. These connections enrich life in ways material possessions never could. Also, being able to pursue passions, hobbies, or work that brings genuine joy and a sense of purpose beyond just earning a living? That’s priceless. It’s about feeling engaged and contributing in ways that light you up. The beautiful thing about this journey is that our definition of success will probably continue to shift as we get older and have new experiences, just like the author insightfully shared. What truly mattered to me at 20 is distinctly different from what matters now, and will likely be different again at 50. And that's perfectly okay. It’s a dynamic, personal journey. So, I encourage you to take a moment today and truly consider: what does success really mean to you, right here, right now? It's a powerful question that, when answered honestly, can guide your choices and help you live a more fulfilling and authentic life.

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For me, success means achieving what you deserve and being financially stable enough to attain it. Self-love and discipline are big indicators of success for me because that's when you recognize your worth and can overcome any obstacles in your path to success.

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Probably studying more and trying not to procrastinate my goal is to have like 3-4 hours of studying taking notes on lectures and probably have breaks.

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