Please and thank you.
I’m by no means saying you can’t have an opinion, but I draw the line at bullying others because they don’t fit your personal standard, or follow the same experiences you do. To me that is a BIG form of negativity due to how cruel people in that “I’m better because I do XYZ! You don’t do XYZ? Faker! You harm the community!” Mindset can be.
I fully believe that the queer and trans experience is different for everyone, whilst some of us may have overlapping experiences and connections— what we truly want with ourselves, our “end goal”, what causes euphoria, and our identities may not align so the whole situation to me is rather silly.
Of course this isn’t a controversy post, so anything steering in that direction will be deleted.
From personal experience, I've found that embracing the diverse experiences within the queer and trans communities is essential for growth and solidarity. Everyone's journey is unique—what brings euphoria or a sense of identity to one person might differ greatly for another. This diversity should be celebrated rather than judged. Bullying or gatekeeping often stems from trying to fit others into strict boxes based on personal standards, which only causes harm and division. It's important to remember that no one needs to meet another's definition of "passing" or conform to specific narratives to be valid or deserving of respect. I've also noticed that social media can sometimes amplify negative voices, such as through reposts that bully or dismiss trans people based on narrow views. Taking a stand by unfollowing or calling out this behavior can help create safer online spaces. Practicing empathy, saying "please" and "thank you," and acknowledging differing perspectives fosters a more inclusive and supportive community. Ultimately, kindness and open-mindedness pave the way for more meaningful connections and empower everyone to pursue their true selves without fear of judgment or exclusion.
sorry bout that but how do i even follow you😭 it wont let me