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Consult. What to do, but before my husband never asked me like this..ðŸĨđ

Please consult. I'm very awkward now. I don't really know what to do. It's like a dilemma every day.

In the past, my husband never behaved like this, but he has recently asked us to take a shower with him every day... morning and evening, like every day. In fact, if we do not enter, he will become frustrated, say that we do not love, do not care, or are "bad wives" until we feel guilty, even though the truth is that we feel very uncomfortable, like being depressed.

We were afraid that if they refused, they would make an excuse to do something else out there or make their relationship worse, and now they don't know how to deal with it. Try to say good things and they don't understand. We only reject them.

It's exhausting. I don't know what kind of behavior to be good at, I want to maintain a relationship, but I want him to understand that we have to have our own space.

Everyone thinks what should we do? Has anyone ever met like this?

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