I know you’re tired.
Tired of the back and forth. Tired of being promised change but seeing the same patterns. Tired of giving your all to someone who only shows up halfway—when it’s convenient, when it benefits them, when they feel like it.
It’s okay to love them. It’s okay to remember the good. But it’s also okay to choose peace. To choose stability. To choose the kind of love that doesn’t make you question your worth.
So if you’re in that space—stuck between familiar pain and the unknown of healing—just know: you’re not weak. You’re not alone. And you’re not crazy for wanting something different.
You deserve a love that feels like safety, not survival.
You deserve peace.
And it’s okay to walk toward it—even if it hurts.
Especially if it heals.
— from someone who understands💛
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🥺… I am at that point where I know exactly what I need to do, but I can’t seem to do it. I’ve gone from loving him more than I loved myself, obviously loving his children, as if they were my own investing everything I had everything I worked for to build my own family with him to build my my own something of my own, but the entire time I felt as if I was Not even really there. I guess I felt like a single parent to his child. There was no partnership no communication there was no teamwork. There was no coparenting. There was nothing. It was me just winging it going off of what my own experience is were growing up as a child and taking all the good that I learned from my mother or my grandmother or my sister And of course, all the bad too and just what would I have done differently? What would I have wanted for myself and doing that for her and I’ve stayed this long because of her. I’m not a wife. I’m a maid. I’m a secretary. I am a a babysitter. I’m a booty call I guess I’m not all the things that I should be that I feel like I should be. I know I haven’t done any everything right? I know I’ve made so many mistakes and I could’ve done things a lot different and still kid but there’s a breaking point because verbal and mental abuse is so painful and so it’s like slow agonizing torture. It’s a different kind of death because it’s long and drawn out, and it’s we can feel the life being sucked out of you you, it’s like letting somebody steal your light your soul. I gave him the best of me. I gave him all the best of mine my best years too. I finally managed to separate myself, but then I keep getting sucked back in and I know I’m never gonna have anything if I continue to stay with him he will take and take and take until there’s absolutely nothing and I am just broken in. There’s gotta be a way to get past this