Cherishing her always✨

I didn’t really know who I was before my first baby but I definitely learned after I had him. I do mourn the days I was child free and much younger, but as sweet as it is to think back to those memories; my purpose now is much greater. Being a mom has changed my life, my perspective of life, has taught me lessons I wouldn’t have learned, and continues to make me practice necessary life skills. I’ll always be grateful for that and proud that I made a whole human from scratch💙🥰

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2025/8/19 Edited to

... Read moreIt's a journey many of us share: that profound shift from the 'me' before baby to the 'me' after. When I first became a mom, I honestly spent some time feeling like I needed to 'mourn her' – my old self. The girl who had endless free time, spontaneous plans, and only herself to worry about. It's a natural part of the process, and understanding that helped me navigate those early days. But through that initial sense of loss, something incredible began to blossom. Truly 'embracing motherhood' for me meant accepting that my life would never be the same, and discovering the immense beauty in that transformation. It wasn't about losing myself entirely, but rather finding a new, richer version. I realized that my purpose wasn't just greater; it was profoundly different, centered around this tiny human who called me 'Mom.' This journey has been one of constant learning and growth. I've had to practice patience in ways I never imagined, develop a resilience I didn't know I possessed, and learn to love with a depth that still astounds me. Those 'early developmental years' of motherhood, both for my child and for me as a new parent, were challenging but also incredibly formative. I learned how to juggle, how to prioritize, and most importantly, how to give myself grace. Now, looking back, I can honestly say I'm 'so proud of her' – the woman I've become. The one who navigated sleepless nights, celebrated every small milestone, and found a strength that only motherhood could reveal. It's a strength built on unwavering love and the realization that 'because she gave me you,' my life gained a meaning far beyond what I could have ever planned. I've learned to 'cherish her' – the new me, the mom I am today, with all the beautiful imperfections and endless love.

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Chasing Dreams

There is nothing like the love for a child

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Modern Mom | Shannon

Love this soo much!! 🥰🥰